Hi i hope you are well (as well as can be) I just wanted to share with everyone our experience I know it helped me in the early stages seeing other people's stories and timelines

My (now ex) partner of 10 years got the knock in may 2024, he was charged with communication and incitement - he had been on a messaging platform called kik and got carried away in indecent conversations, sending images of himself and ended up speaking with a police decoy, all his laptop phones and electronics seized and nothing else was found



in July 2025 he had his plea hearing at crown court. he plead not guilty



In august 2026 he went for trial and changed his plea to guilty last minute

today (September 2026) he had his sentencing at crown court. He has been given 3 year suspended sentence, indefinite SOR, 10 year SHPO



And as for me I will be stepping away from him now and putting this chapter of my life to rest. I have just turned 30 and going to go live my life !