Support /advice possible rekindle marriage after 3 years

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Devestatedwife

Member since
October 2023

88 posts

Hello everyone

so to cut a long story short ... husband of 15 years got the knock at our home over 3 years ago .

I decided to separate and we have been seperated since .

he lost contact with the children for over 2 years and has recently got supervised back .

recently I have been feeling that I would like to give our marriage another try but I don't know if I can.

my families case is about to close , I don't know how to move forward or what to do . I'm really confused to be honest

Posted Sun September 13, 2026 5:04pm
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Distressed and pregnant

Member since
November 2020

1354 posts

Hi, I've sent you a pm. I initially left and then decided 2 years later to give our relationship another chance xxx

Posted Sun September 13, 2026 10:58pmReport post

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Member since
May 2025

287 posts

What recovery, rehab, psych work has he completed? How different are his thoughts and behavours now?

Posted Mon September 14, 2026 5:37amReport post

Devestatedwife

Member since
October 2023

88 posts

Thank you for your replies



he's done alot of work . He's been in therapy , he completed courses from stop it now and other organisations . And he knows what he did was wrong

honestly I still wake up daily with a new answer in my mind . Can I can't I ? I don't know . When I see him (which I haven't done for a long time ) all the feelings come back . But then I think of what he's put us all threw and I change my mind again . It's been really difficult couple of weeks

Posted Mon September 14, 2026 8:03amReport post


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