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Daisy564

Member since
July 2025

35 posts

I literally can't do this anymore. Had a postal 'bail date brought forward' letter today after 14 months of hell on earth - this is it by looks. My Sons bail was extended until January but has now been brought forward to this Tuesday and the anxiety is breaking me. How much more am I able to take, my life is already so sad with my Dad on end of life care and this looming is just the icing on the cake.

i want to runaway and never return.

Posted Fri September 18, 2026 4:21pm
Edited Fri September 18, 2026 4:22pmReport post

Joanie28

Member since
August 2026

6 posts

You never knew you were this strong when all this nightmare started. You've got this far and it's just extremely scary knowing you're going to get answers soon.
Just try to distract yourself as much as possible and take things a day at a time.
sending you so much strength.
Ive been told the waiting is the worst bit.

Posted Fri September 18, 2026 6:22pm
Edited Fri September 18, 2026 6:55pmReport post

Holdingthegrenade

Member since
June 2024

336 posts

Hang in there Daisy

You do eventuallly feel more settled once the sentencing is all done. At that point there shouldn't be any more unknowns, delays or nasty surprises. Remember how you felt the day you found out.....for me it was the worse day of my life and no matter what happens from now on nothing can possibly be as bad as those first few days.

Posted Fri September 18, 2026 11:22pmReport post

Saint Jude

Member since
January 2025

69 posts

Just want to say I'm so sorry you are here and struggling. And want to echo what previous two posters have said. It is an utter, utter nightmare but you will get through it.

Sending love and strength x

Posted Fri September 18, 2026 11:57pm
Edited Fri September 18, 2026 11:58pmReport post


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