Help with supervised access

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Avocado chipotle

Member since
September 2026

3 posts

Hi. My partner has a non-contact IIOC conviction (12 months suspended for two years). His SHPO allows supervised contact with under-18s. He's completed therapy, Lucy Faithfull, SAA, and a probation ADHD course.

He's had letter-only contact with his son for several years and now wants to apply for supervised contact. His ex-wife opposes this, CAFCASS says it'll be a long process, and Cumbria contact centres won't supervise because of his conviction.

Has anyone found an alternative when contact centres refused? And has anyone moved from indirect to supervised contact in similar circumstances? How has this affected the child involved?

Posted Sat September 26, 2026 1:05pmReport post

Lucy from Stop it Now!

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September 2018

745 posts

Hello,

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Posted Mon October 5, 2026 6:58pmReport post


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