I have a IPPM next week and very worried about it. We are only at the start at his horrible journey but SS has been so unhelpful. I have been called by them that I am not an emergency, communication has been poor. My children are on a safety plan since 16th September. I only found out information about everything via the Internet. They dont explain next steps just get a letter with an appointment and my attendance required. My husband has been taken under suspicion on the 16th September. No contact to our children. He had to move 500 miles away as we couldn't afford seperate accommodation for him. We just moved in August to a new area and dont have lots of contacts here. So struggling will all of this plus now SS. Has anyone experience in first IPPM meetings. What can I expect on the day as feeling SS sees us as a case and dont see us a living people.