Finally, a positive post from me!!

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Anxiousmummy

Member since
July 2024

34 posts

It's been a while since I last posted, but first positive post here...

It’s been nearly 6 years of this process and finally we are getting somewhere.

First up if you are offered a family group conference (FGC) take it! It’s been life changing for us. After constant battles with SS I finally have my other half back home and I am supervising contact.

We have finally been stepped down to CIN plan & this will hopefully only be for a short amount of time and then we can finally start to move forward without SS over our shoulders.

I was very sceptical about FGC, everything seemed too good to be true but omg they agreed to everything, our plan was safe, we made a phased return plan so for the first 5 weeks he moved back 4 days a week, and then after that he’s back full time at home.

Now the only thing hanging over us is the SOR, 4.5yrs left of that and then we are thinking we may move away and start completely fresh.

I never thought I’d be here sharing anything positive but I am finally seeing the light. It’s so hard to get excited about the future but one step at a time we are getting there.

Look after yourselves everyone!

Posted Fri October 16, 2026 11:31pm
Edited Fri October 16, 2026 11:32pmReport post

Needsomehope

Member since
November 2025

51 posts

How bloody lovely it is to see someone finally getting light at the end of their tunnel!! Gives me faith that one day, life will get back on track. So happy for you! X

Posted Sat October 17, 2026 9:14amReport post

Inthemoment

Member since
February 2023

459 posts

Absolutely thrilled for you! I know it's been such a long road, but what a huge win. Delighted for you and your children

Posted Sat October 17, 2026 4:34pmReport post

Anxiousmummy

Member since
July 2024

34 posts

Thank you both. Absolutely thrilled <3

Posted Mon October 19, 2026 3:47pm
Edited Mon October 19, 2026 3:48pmReport post

Jayjay

Member since
December 2021

683 posts

Hey lovely I'm over the moon for you. I haven't been on here for a few years and I know we spoke early on in my journey. Glad things are looking up x

Posted Tue October 20, 2026 9:06pmReport post


 
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