It's the anniversary on when a vigilante group turned up at my front door this week and even though it's been a few years now I always struggle at this time.

My OH was sentenced for inappropriate conversation with a "young adult" (I use abrasions as this person did not exist-not that I am condoning his behaviour) but there was no images or asking to meet-it was less than a fourteen day conversation. He never been in trouble before and was sentenced to 6 mths in prison and then 6 mnths suspended

Since then we have tried to rebuild our relationship but we seem to do ok and then all a sudden the video from this group appears online again-tik tok seem to be the main place. It stirs it all back up again

The police came today to do a check which is fine and nothing to worry about but again it stirs it all back up again and when they ask questions about our sex life it makes me feel dirty-I'm far from a prude but now I feel like i did when it first started

Has anyone else felt like this? Does it get easier over the years?

Most of the time everything is ok but then it feels like it's all starting again with the reposting of the video and the police. Also I have found the police rude everytime they have come out-like we are scum on there shoe

Maybe it's just me but has anyone else felt like this and what have they done? Is it possible to have a relationship after all this? Does it get any easier?