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Ren

Member since
January 2020

78 posts

Posted Wed March 18, 2020 7:50pmReport post

Fed up of friends just ghosting me. Why cant they just be honest and say that they find it hard and that they cant be friends at the mo. It's just so frustrating.



On the upside the hubby confided in his best friend of over 20 years and he went mad that my hubby didnt talk to him sooner and he is fine about us visiting and happy to talk to the police if we stayed over.



Hope everyone is well xxx

Tutleymutley

Member since
November 2019

104 posts

Posted Wed March 18, 2020 10:54pmReport post

Isn't it heart warming when people behave in a non judgemental and supportive way?

WE plod on in limboland.

SallyBlue

Member since
March 2019

252 posts

Posted Sat March 21, 2020 5:02pmReport post

Rent, I am down pretty much all of my friends. One by one they disappeared, I feel lonely at times but I just have to deal with it.

I'm glad your other half confided in his friend. I wish my husband could. His best friend was great about it all but sadly he passed away.

Ren

Member since
January 2020

78 posts

Posted Sun March 22, 2020 10:14pmReport post

sorry to hear about your husbands friend xxx

My sick note runs out on thursday and i am not sure what to do about work. I have been in a few times and just get stared at. I thought some of these people were friends but now i realise they are just colleagues. I had a wellness meeting 4 weeks ago where my manager said no one wishes to work with me. That really hurt. So again not sure what to do about work. I want to go back but unsure if i have the strenght to face these people.

i just feel so isolated. I have my best friend who has been amazing about everything but she has her family to take of.

i am just a bit fed up at the moment.

SallyBlue

Member since
March 2019

252 posts

Posted Mon March 23, 2020 11:44amReport post

I understand how fed up you are. You are in a horrible situation. HR should be looking out for you. This is not your offence, people shouldnt be able to say who they pick and choose to work with.

When I was in management we occasionally had conflict between staff members. We could not accommodate everyone, the only time shifts would change is if it was best for everyone and posed risk. Not just because you disapprove with their life choices. You will get through it x

Ren

Member since
January 2020

78 posts

Posted Mon March 23, 2020 4:54pmReport post

Thank you sallyblue just not sure what to do and I work on a supermarket so I dont think I a going to be on the top of their list at the moment.

I just need to let them know i want to come back and see what happens xx