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Lisajt1973

Member since
March 2020

29 posts

Posted Fri April 3, 2020 10:02amReport post

Hi you amazing ladies,



Just woundering how much you wanted to

Know detail wize. We have had some detailed

Conversations but now with help and talking

To LF i seem to nees to know more expecially

as i am staying. Its so hard to even contemplate

Why , how , when etc . I must say my hb

is being honest but do i need to know it

all?

Lisajt1973

Member since
March 2020

29 posts

Posted Fri April 3, 2020 1:38pmReport post

Thankyou Lee



Yes i have been given permission to see all

If i need , with my hb its iicos at the moment

4 all cats ffs this blows you mind. He has been

Honest as far as i know and from what the

Police have said it all fits. But i need to

know as my head just seems todo what

it wants so i feel if i know then at least

I know. But like you said i already know

more that any wife should and its nasty.

I am proud of my hb for all the hard work

and pain he is going through to concer this

addiction as we are sure that his fascination

with sex is the root of the problem . I must

say i didn't relise how deep he was in . I

find this hars to deal with as other legal

things have come to light. I undetstand

he has always had problems excepting

his bisexuality and have supported him on this

To watch a man i love go through withdrawal

From this is hard to watch but a part of me

Thinks good i glad it coursing you problems

as youvhave coursed me problems and perhaps

I need to see this to make me belive its a

Problem to him. Next step LF help line .

Keep strong my wounderful ladies xx

Tabs

Member since
November 2019

501 posts

Posted Fri April 3, 2020 7:33pmReport post

I really feel I need to know everything! Every little last detail. Not sure if that's the right approach, but I've supposedly heard everything that he's been up to. But it's so not the men I thought I was married to for 30 plus years, that I feel I need to have some sort of therapeutic disclosure. What he did and why he did it. What led him there. Etc etc. He too was trapped by vigilantes, I believe he was going to meet a woman, but I will only know for sure when police have finished investigating. I don't know that I can ever see us getting back together. Absence is not making the heart finder, I'm just getting angrier particularly as I am now in living through this time on my own....I'm not sure I can ever forgive him for all the hurt he's caused and is still causing me. Take care all of you! xxx

Tabs

Member since
November 2019

501 posts

Posted Fri April 3, 2020 7:33pmReport post

I hate not being able to check my typing before I post...apologies, but you get the gist!