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Cher

Member since
March 2019

103 posts

Posted Fri April 3, 2020 10:10amReport post

My ex husband went to court June 2019 for iioc got 8 months suspended sentence and 10 years in register, it was in the paper and all over Facebook, luckily there was no photo. At that time the one thing that terrorised me was it going in the paper! So 9 months on and the idiot has f**ked up again, he didn't register a device, so now he's going back to court in July and all my fears and horrendous anxiety is back, can't sleep or eat again, so scared it will be in the paper and online again, but this time with a photo! I've managed not to let my little girl find out what her father is and done and know he'll probably have to go to prison and again there is a chance someone will see the paper and tell her!! I hate him all over again, how could he do this to us AGAIN!!!

Lisajt1973

Member since
March 2020

29 posts

Posted Fri April 3, 2020 10:17amReport post

Oh sweetie ,

Why are they so stupied ! They don't

Understand the damadge they do. I call it

the crime that keeps on giving. Have they

found more stuff on this divice or could

it be just a slip of the mind. As with all

press it might not go in as its not very intresting

. I dread the media thing so feel for you

Keep strong sweetie xx

Cher

Member since
March 2019

103 posts

Posted Fri April 3, 2020 11:32amReport post

They didn't find anything on it, he's saying it's an oversight, you'd think he would be on top of all the restrictions, in fear of going to prison, I just don't know what goes through his head, he pretty much buried his head in the sand through all of this!

Cher

Member since
March 2019

103 posts

Posted Fri April 3, 2020 11:36amReport post

Xx

Cher

Member since
March 2019

103 posts

Posted Fri April 3, 2020 1:18pmReport post

Hi Lost123, he could still go to prison because it's within his suspended time of 2 years, I believe it was an accident but that is still not an excuse, he should have all the rules memorised, if it was me I would make sure I was doing everything I was supposed to do! And now he could have possibly put us and his daughter in danger again. I suffer with anxiety and with this virus it's through the roof, now this ontop.

Sjp88

Member since
October 2019

26 posts

Posted Sat April 4, 2020 3:30amReport post

I am so so sorry. I have no advice but I'm so sorry he has put you and your family back in the spotlight.

Dottie

Member since
June 2019

236 posts

Posted Tue April 7, 2020 8:11amReport post

Hi Cher,

Sorry you are going through more hell and anxiety. These men are so stupid, they just don't seem to think.

It is possible that during CV they will want to keep as many out of prison as possible. Just a thought and I could be very wrong, but I hope you can cope with this unnecessary turn of events. Sending love and strength. Xx

Cher

Member since
March 2019

103 posts

Posted Tue April 7, 2020 9:56amReport post

Hi Dottie,

I've been in contact with the courts, because I know he won't tell me the court date, and they have scheduled it for after, hopefully, this CV is over, they told me if it goes on longer they will move the date. At the moment it is 2/7 do I can relax a little bit about that, but I know I'll be in a state of panic when it gets closer. Xx