How to deal with neibours?
Notifications OFF
Hi obviously our neibours aren't happy with what my ex has done he came on Saturday and dropped off shopping... now I've got them messaging me saying the kids in the street aren't safe and phoning the police anyone know how to deal with this?
I am sotto hear you are having issues with your neighbors. But what they are doing could be seen as haressment, especially if they continue. Try to not respond to their comments unless maybe say they need to voice their concerns to the police and not yourself. Tho probably best to ring the helpline for official advice. Either way keep a record of all negative interactions (texts, verbal etc). Over time they might get bored or realise it's a fight not worth fighting for since your partner is doing no wrong by popping by. I hope it calms down for you soon. But if it gets too much you are entitled to make a complaint about them to the police.
Ive had neibours texting me saying I'm condoning what he did, I've been trying to hard to get it to work again but times like these I get scared
They're not really threatening just upsetting saying their kids are at risk I'm condoning him etc I understand their fears but I think it's a bit rude as I wouldn't do that if it were them
Just makes me doubt wether I'm strong enough
Strong enough to get back with my ex and face all the backlash to come.
Also I feel like I have some sort of PTSD from the day I know that probably sounds extreme but whenever I see police I get all anxious and nervous and start shaking. They came to my house today and ever since I've cried all day terrified they're going to come back just saw blue flashing lights outside and I was terrified they were coming here even though I know I've done nothing wrong
Also I feel like I have some sort of PTSD from the day I know that probably sounds extreme but whenever I see police I get all anxious and nervous and start shaking. They came to my house today and ever since I've cried all day terrified they're going to come back just saw blue flashing lights outside and I was terrified they were coming here even though I know I've done nothing wrong
Report EVERYTHING. Anything said to you, any texts or threats. People who have never been in this situation dont realise how closely monitored they are. X
I don't want to waste police time or annoy them, I don't have any support apart from this forum as everyone in my "real" life doesn't agree with my choice
Hello chick I am in a similar situation as yourself with our neighbours.
We have had to call the police a few times and they have been fantastic everytime they came out. At the end of the day they aren't there for your husbands crime that has/is being felt with. They are there to protect you.
I really dont understand how these people justify their behaviour. They dont seem to understand the law protects everyone.
At the end of the day this is your life and live it how you want to. Fuck them all!! They think they have all the answers with the tiny grain of rice of information they have but we have a bloody kg of rice of information on the situation. Bloody morons.
Sorry about the rant hope it helps and makes sense.
Stay strong all you lovely ladies xxx
We have had to call the police a few times and they have been fantastic everytime they came out. At the end of the day they aren't there for your husbands crime that has/is being felt with. They are there to protect you.
I really dont understand how these people justify their behaviour. They dont seem to understand the law protects everyone.
At the end of the day this is your life and live it how you want to. Fuck them all!! They think they have all the answers with the tiny grain of rice of information they have but we have a bloody kg of rice of information on the situation. Bloody morons.
Sorry about the rant hope it helps and makes sense.
Stay strong all you lovely ladies xxx