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So today is my 54th birthday, it's been a tough week working up to it and today I just can't bring myself to open any presents and cards although my lovely family and friends have made a huge effort!
It's the first year since this started in April so I know all the firsts are the hardest but goodness I do hope it is better next year!
So glad I have you guys to understand how I'm feeling - I hope he finds it as hard as me but I somehow doubt it!!!
Xx
It's the first year since this started in April so I know all the firsts are the hardest but goodness I do hope it is better next year!
So glad I have you guys to understand how I'm feeling - I hope he finds it as hard as me but I somehow doubt it!!!
Xx
Hi Tracey
Just wanted to wish you a Happy 54th Birthday.
I know it may not be a happy or the best one but im wishing you all the best anyway, You deserve it.
All my love and best wishes,
KittyKatt xxx
Just wanted to wish you a Happy 54th Birthday.
I know it may not be a happy or the best one but im wishing you all the best anyway, You deserve it.
All my love and best wishes,
KittyKatt xxx
Happy birthday from me too. Yes, the first year is the hardest. I remember feeling dreadful on my birthday even though everyone had been so kind. It’s lonely and humiliating. However, this time next year things will be less raw and - I hope - you will have established what you want for your future and will have the confidence to go out and seek it. I think the best birthday present you can receive is permission to put yourself first (we women are very good at putting others ahead of ourselves) and not to feel guilty about that. You are strong and brave, and you’ve come through the worst. I hope you have a better time next year xx
A big happy birthday Tracey, pull those pants up and go and have a great day. You deserve it more than you know. It's a rather rubbish time we are all having but that shouldn't stop you from having a happy time every now and then and there's no better time than your birthday! x
Hi Tracey
my birthday was just a month after the knock so I can imagine how you are feeling. Thinking of you. Let us know how you are doing. We are here for you .
Love Paula xx
my birthday was just a month after the knock so I can imagine how you are feeling. Thinking of you. Let us know how you are doing. We are here for you .
Love Paula xx
Tracey happy birthday.
I know exactly how you feel my birthdy in october was 2 weeks after my 1st wedding anniversary and exactly 1 years since my wedding reception (we got married aboard).
I disabled my facebook wall and messenger and blocked all my friends on my phone for 48 hours so i wouldnt get any messages. The only person i accepted a card and present from was my daughter.
1st are really hard and unless youve had the knock you dont understand that
I know exactly how you feel my birthdy in october was 2 weeks after my 1st wedding anniversary and exactly 1 years since my wedding reception (we got married aboard).
I disabled my facebook wall and messenger and blocked all my friends on my phone for 48 hours so i wouldnt get any messages. The only person i accepted a card and present from was my daughter.
1st are really hard and unless youve had the knock you dont understand that
Well I made it through, I kept really busy at work then spent the evening with my parents and one of my son's
It's certainly finished off better than it started!!
Thanks for all your messages
Much love xx
It's certainly finished off better than it started!!
Thanks for all your messages
Much love xx
Hi Tracey - Happy Birthday and well done on getting through it. Hope you managed to find some joy in the day. Big hugs - as others have said firsts are difficult and the special occasions in our lives do highlight the awful situation we are all in. I just keep trying to focus on the positive things I have and hope that you will have found some positives yesterday. Xx
Happy birthday, Tracey!
I think it happens to all of us. Guess you're just very tired and need to relax and recharge. Open a bottle of wine, turn on nice music (here I found many touching songs https://www.poptop.uk.com/blog/top-tips-when-choosing-the-wedding-exit-songs/ called "wedding", but to me they are just romantic songs that cheer me up), remember that life is a gift and enjoy the momet :)
I think it happens to all of us. Guess you're just very tired and need to relax and recharge. Open a bottle of wine, turn on nice music (here I found many touching songs https://www.poptop.uk.com/blog/top-tips-when-choosing-the-wedding-exit-songs/ called "wedding", but to me they are just romantic songs that cheer me up), remember that life is a gift and enjoy the momet :)
Tracey, happy belated birthday. I am glad the end of the day was better for you than the start. You deserve to enjoy your life, even around all this nightmare. Remember we didn't do anything wrong, so dont punish yourself.
There seems to be a few of us on here in our 50's, not easy thinking of starting a new life when you thought you were settled.
I wish you all the best for your 54th year. May it be happier and healthy and that you will find peace and joy for your future, whatever that holds for you.
xx
There seems to be a few of us on here in our 50's, not easy thinking of starting a new life when you thought you were settled.
I wish you all the best for your 54th year. May it be happier and healthy and that you will find peace and joy for your future, whatever that holds for you.
xx