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Lis

Member since
November 2019

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Posted Fri May 29, 2020 10:55pmReport post

For the people who doesn't know me: I am the wife of a man who was using pornography and child pornography on internet for years out of curiosity. The knock came Apry 2019. First he denied it for 6 months, then when he had the police interview he admitted it. He asked me to forgive him. I was upset and angry. It took me 3 months to accept what he had done and after that he had been to a private therapist for 6 sessions I agree to support him. We are older and our children have left home and have their own families now.

We waited for the hearing. My husband apologised to me often. Then the COVID19 came. Everything was put on hold. My husband changed. Now he tells me he doesn't want to talk about it. He acts like nothing ever is going to happen. If I bring it up he says " stop, I don't want to talk about it". He has also started to drink more, get drunk and goes to bed. I don't know what I want and what to do. I feel trapped.