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flower123

Member since
January 2020

20 posts

Posted Fri June 5, 2020 11:00pmReport post

Evening

does the feeling you are going back to square one ever go?

It's 11 months post knock, he's just accepted a caution and 2 years on SOR. He no longer lives here but he does come round. Yesterday he had an unexpected visit from 'Protection' police who checked his phone and asked about his mental well being. He asked about seeing me and my children (boys aged 14 and 19) and she put a call into SS who said they have on file me and boys never see him and now they're going to be making contact with me.



I already had SS round here when he was arrested and am so angry it's going to happen again as it feels like someone is questioning how safe my child is. The older one is treated as an adult. I'm so angry my husband has put me through all this pain and it feff Ed is like it will never go away.

I'm wondering if I should just Chuck the towel in and file for a divorce. I can't sad pens the rest of my life on a roller coaster.

thank you for listening

flower123

Member since
January 2020

20 posts

Posted Fri June 5, 2020 11:02pmReport post

Sorry just seen typos but can't edit.

I don't want to spend the rest of my life on this roller coaster.

Rainbowgirl80

Member since
May 2020

204 posts

Posted Sat June 6, 2020 11:33amReport post

Hi flower123

How awful that things are being dug up again so long after?! What happened to he rehabilitation of offenders act?! That doesn't seem to apply with these offences!

I am personally only 2.5 weeks after that horrific knock. I am still loving and wanting my husband. I have no idea what the future holds or what decision I will make in the long term. I think it would be easier for me, you n every other woman on here if we could just hate them like most of our family want us to. Unfortunately the heart doesn't quite work that simply!

Hope you make the right decision for you xxx