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Notsurewheretogo

Member since
December 2019

89 posts

Posted Sat June 6, 2020 6:55pmReport post

hey guys,

I just wanted to find out if any of your partners end up getting a caution only or caution and sor.



What did social services do in that case as far as they afe concerned at the moment the case is closed with a safety plan in place (no unsupervised contact).

They said they would decide further when a decision is made and i just wondered what the outcome was for any of your guys regarding a caution given.



Thanks

Chelster22

Member since
May 2020

2 posts

Posted Sat June 13, 2020 8:02amReport post

Hi

Police found no evidence on devices belonging to my ex and SS involvement relates to my grandchildren who visit and stay over regularly

SS initially contacted all 3 of my children and agreed no social care order in the basis my ex and I had parted company however he refused to move out during lockdown



However, they subsequently got back in touch to say they had received information saying we were still together (no idea where from and my grandkids hadn't even been to my house since it all started as I chose to lock down with my daughter at her house )

SS made it absolutely clear that they consider him a risk and if my daughter wanted her children to have anything to do with my ex there would be a social worker assigned



I'm absolutely devastated he's brought this to my doorstep. He's moved out now but accepts no responsibility for the disruption and hurt he's caused

i even have a sneaky feeling it might have been him contacted SS to try and smooth things over so he could stay as no-one else knew enough about family circumstances to have raised such concerns with SS