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Elle28

Member since
February 2020

4 posts

Posted Fri July 17, 2020 11:35amReport post

Hey everyone, any advice would be appreciated as I'm going through hell like many of you are. His history is all a really long story that I won't get into now - but yesterday my boyfriend got recalled to prison, I was at work and work as a carer so I was unable to take the call. I received some very vague voice mails after my 13 hour shift from him saying it was probably a 2 week recall - he is on probabtion for a similar offence. I am so confused and am unable to get hold of anyone about this? Had anybody had this experience at all before? I haven't heard from him since. I am desperate to speak to him but I know he probably thinks I'm better off without him. His community police officer is off, his probabtion officer isn't answering and the prison aren't being very helpful.



thank you xx

Lucy from Stop it Now!

Member since
September 2018

376 posts

Posted Tue July 28, 2020 2:47pmReport post

Hi Elle28,

It is positive to see that you have found this forum as a source of support and information during such a difficult time. Hopefully other users who have been in a similar situation will be able to reply to your post soon.Finding out that a loved one has been accessing indecent images of children can come as a massive shock and can evoke a range of emotions, so it is important to seek support. I would really encourage you to phone our Stop it Now! helpline on 0808 1000 900 if you have not done so already. You will be able to discuss your situation and concern in more detail with one of our helpline operators. Please be assured that the helpline is anonymous, confidential and free to phone from a landline.

Best wishes,

Lucy

Edited Tue July 28, 2020 2:47pm