Struggling. Scared.. and afraid what the future holds
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Going out of my mind here.. how to shut my sons fb etc before the crap hits the fan... .. been told to get a letter off him with authorisation to do this.. will this work????. I know hes done wrong but he is still my baby... .. his bail cobditions say no going online.. HE wont be.. i will be... HELP
Hi
You could get the password off him and go into settings and close it that way.
Hope you get sorted
Snuggle
You could get the password off him and go into settings and close it that way.
Hope you get sorted
Snuggle
Can you not ask the police if you can do that?
They will be able to advise you.
I hope you get it sorted soon and of course he's your baby, they always are no matter how old they get and you just want to protect him. Don't beat yourself up about that, we are not going to judge you for it
Take care x
They will be able to advise you.
I hope you get it sorted soon and of course he's your baby, they always are no matter how old they get and you just want to protect him. Don't beat yourself up about that, we are not going to judge you for it
Take care x
Snuggle.. ive got alll the passwords but scared to do it.. dont want to get my child into more trouble.. and tracy .. thanks.. hes 27 yrs old but still my child ...distraught here.. losing the plot.. xxx
Hi Jono1,
Thanks for your post. It sounds like yours is a really tricky - and stressful - situation, and I just wanted to encourage you to call our Stop it Now! Helpline on 0808 1000 900. The lines are open until 5.00pm today, and will then re-open all day on Monday 31st Jan. Your situation sounds a bit different from some other people's on this forum and I am hopeful that you would find talking to one of our operators, in person, helpful (if you haven't already done so). Thank you.
Thanks for your post. It sounds like yours is a really tricky - and stressful - situation, and I just wanted to encourage you to call our Stop it Now! Helpline on 0808 1000 900. The lines are open until 5.00pm today, and will then re-open all day on Monday 31st Jan. Your situation sounds a bit different from some other people's on this forum and I am hopeful that you would find talking to one of our operators, in person, helpful (if you haven't already done so). Thank you.
Hi there, Like you I’ve just found out my son, 43 has just been arrested for something in this line but I don’t know what. He’s in Australia. I empathise with your pain. Your words ....” he’s still my baby” are the exact words I cried to myself. Feel your pain.
Hi lucy.. my lads been trying since 2pm to get thru and its engaged.. hes had to give up now as u are closed... georgia.. but they are still our babies.. i really do get that people can walk away and distance themselves from boyfriends and husbands.. theyre not related to these people.. thats the way i look at it anyway.. how do u walk away from ur own child.. its impossible
Hi , I am a mum too and i hear and agree with what your saying , I really feel for everyone's circumstances in our rotten club but yes it's difficult to turn your back on your own flesh and blood 2 years on and I'm still upset
Hi Nonna.. its an impossible situation.. we cant turn away and let my son deal with this alone.. hes our kid.. he was born ill and was in hospital for the 1st 7 wks of his life.. ive never stopped caring for him since.. hes now 27 yrs old and im still doing it and will continue to.. hes my child.. i dont see him as a grown up.. hes just my little boy.. i dont know what were doing.but.right or wrong we will stand by him.... and help where we can... . . Im/we are all over the place at the minute..crying non stop. But thats not acheiving anything..... nowheres open till 2nd jan.. oh for a new year and all it brings.. i hope in a few days ill be strong enough to kick some arse... even if its only my own.. haha
We were so upset too my son was in his late teens when the knock came we were so shocked and devastated I couldn't eat go to work or shopping or even function at all really, life as we knew it was over , however it goes on for a long time the investigation endless bail in those days, I feel for him all the time even though he's done wrong , I ask myself why and look at other family's and wish I was like them that appear happy it will be a long winding road and I've accepted that and will try and stop looking backwards and try to make some new memories it is possible I think little by little, i feel and care for you
Nonna.. being new to this nightmare you really dont know how much your words mean.. i know theyre coming from your heart and im so gratefull for that.. .. youll never know how gratefull. Xxx
I really do care and feel for you and your family I just wish I could give you a big hug and we could hold each other up, but please speak with the people at lucy faithfully they will help with your emotions and put it into perspective as much as possible at the moment , just take time no outsiders need to know your business
Will try ring them tomorow as i feel now. just over a week in i need something.... someone... dont knoe how we are coping.. but.. we are still here.. x