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Hi All,
So I thought I'd share a good news story as you don't see many of them on here.
I haven't posted for a few months but husbnd was arrested in Dec 2018 for a one off communication with another adult about having sex with a minor. All devices came back clear and it was proven to be a one off thing.
I have gotten over all my anger over the last 18 months and he's been into therapy to address some very deep rooted issues from childhood that were a factor in his awful behaviour.
We finally had the call this week to officially say that there is no further action!. I havent slept as well as I have this week in nearly 19 months!
I'm sharing this because for those who are at the start of their journey it can come to no further action by the police and in our case we were told by duty solicitor that husband would be facing jail.
I still read posts regularly but don't post alot anymore and in all honesty I hope I don't need tbe support I got from this forum in the early months ever again but I will post where I think I can be of help to anyone or offer any advice of relevance.
Keep your chin up ladies and gents
Ttkit
So I thought I'd share a good news story as you don't see many of them on here.
I haven't posted for a few months but husbnd was arrested in Dec 2018 for a one off communication with another adult about having sex with a minor. All devices came back clear and it was proven to be a one off thing.
I have gotten over all my anger over the last 18 months and he's been into therapy to address some very deep rooted issues from childhood that were a factor in his awful behaviour.
We finally had the call this week to officially say that there is no further action!. I havent slept as well as I have this week in nearly 19 months!
I'm sharing this because for those who are at the start of their journey it can come to no further action by the police and in our case we were told by duty solicitor that husband would be facing jail.
I still read posts regularly but don't post alot anymore and in all honesty I hope I don't need tbe support I got from this forum in the early months ever again but I will post where I think I can be of help to anyone or offer any advice of relevance.
Keep your chin up ladies and gents
Ttkit
Hi ttkip
That is an amazing update I'm so happy for you! This is the first bit of good news I have seen on this forum since joining the club no one wants to be a member of in June this year.
I am hoping for a similar outcome in my partners circumstances and thank you for sharing that it isn't all doom and gloom outcomes. I hope you can start to rebuild and pick up your life and try and move forward from this horrendous experience. Good luck yaz x
That is an amazing update I'm so happy for you! This is the first bit of good news I have seen on this forum since joining the club no one wants to be a member of in June this year.
I am hoping for a similar outcome in my partners circumstances and thank you for sharing that it isn't all doom and gloom outcomes. I hope you can start to rebuild and pick up your life and try and move forward from this horrendous experience. Good luck yaz x
Hi Ttkit
Ahh am sooo pleased for you and your husband! It is so good to see a happy post on here!
I dream of my partner getting an NFA (but it's extremely unlikely)
I wish you all the best in the future from now on
mabel xx
Ahh am sooo pleased for you and your husband! It is so good to see a happy post on here!
I dream of my partner getting an NFA (but it's extremely unlikely)
I wish you all the best in the future from now on
mabel xx
Hi Ttkit,
I am so happy for you and your partner. I wish you both well and much happiness in the future. Thank you for sharing this, it gives me some hope! xxx
I am so happy for you and your partner. I wish you both well and much happiness in the future. Thank you for sharing this, it gives me some hope! xxx
So pleased to hear another positive outcome. My husband also got NFA for images on his device - he was honest from the moment of the nock.
I wish you all the very best. Time to start moving forward from a horrendous journey.
I wish you all the very best. Time to start moving forward from a horrendous journey.
Thanks for your post. It really helps seeing a positive ending, especially first thing in the morning! Good luck to you and your family and thanks for the encouragement.
How can it come to this? Didn't realize this was a possibility?