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So I guess I have been lucky so far as in my husband is allowed to see myself and the children whenever we wish as long as I supervise and we meet and stay in a public place and the children are not left alone with him for a second his case is still under investigation he looked at photographs on a chat room site they were not directly sent to him they were for all to see on the site not that it excuses his behaviour because we have children social services have said he may never be able to return home I'm not sure if he will mentally and emotionally cope when he is told this we have stayed together and wish to continue to stay together but not sure how we can stay together and live apart we moved to a new area before this happened so feel more alone than ever! What are other people's experiences I find not having others to speak to about this hard people have noticed he has gone I had to leave my job as I work with children it was difficult it's a very lonely existence for the ones left to pick up the pieces

Thank you Lee1969 I appreciate your words we got the Knock July 1st so just at the beginning of the nightmare that's why I feel lucky to have been granted the privilege to be together in a public place so quickly it's hard watching my children suffer and not being able to give them the one thing that makes them happy which is dad coming home my husband is very remorseful it was purely a moment of madness on his part a split second he will regret forever he isn't dealing with it well a time machine would be amazing at the moment xx