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Tracey

Member since
December 2018

450 posts

Posted Mon December 31, 2018 1:43pmReport post

Personally this has been the hardest year I've ever had to cope with, but I've got 8 months down the road and still have my head above water (although some days it doesn't feel like it)!

I know next year is going to be just as hard although in a different way but I'm hoping I'll manage that one as well!

Just want to wish you all in our mad little club that no one wants to be in, a good new year and remember we're all here to support each other.

I suppose my one wish would be that we could meet up so here's hoping

Much love xx

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Jaded

Member since
December 2018

202 posts

Posted Mon December 31, 2018 2:13pmReport post

Yep, same right back at you Tracey. I’d hope 2019 brings you all strength, the insight to recognise your strengths, peace, happiness and to constantly remind yourselves you are innocent and that there are people who understand and support you.

Wouldn’t it be fantastic to meet up personally. Perhaps this organisation would give us permission to use this forum to facilitate that.

Paula

Member since
September 2018

80 posts

Posted Mon December 31, 2018 4:42pmReport post

Hi Tracey and Jaded

thank goodness for our mad little club. Don’t know how I’d cope without it. I would also like the option to be in touch other than on the forum. I wonder if there is a way?

In the meantime I’m having a very tough NYE and wishing I’d stayed on with my family in the States. Emotions are all over the place. I miss him terribly but never want to see him again kind of conflict.

Next year there will be more challenges and the court case. But like you Tracey am keeping my head above water...just.

thinking of you all.

Paulaxx

Bethlou23

Member since
December 2018

383 posts

Posted Mon December 31, 2018 5:57pmReport post

I am wishing you all the love in the world. Paula I share your conflict of missing but not wanting to get in touch.

I don’t think my ex is being honest at all and it saddens me when I have given him so much of the inner me.

it must be an intimacy issue and again other conflicts that I just can’t make sense of or ever will.

i am spending new year with my mum and daughter but will probably be in bed before 10pm.



keep us updated in 2019 hopefully we can all get stronger together. It means so much to have this forum and those with a few months and years into the knowledge the knock brings.

Beth Lou xxxx

Andrea

Member since
September 2018

181 posts

Posted Mon December 31, 2018 6:40pmReport post

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Maria

Member since
September 2018

286 posts

Posted Mon December 31, 2018 7:08pmReport post

Happy new year to you all, i hope 2019 brings sonething good for us all. I normally get exciting for a new year, plan all the wonderful things i will do with family and friends but 2019 is different, i just want to more tears, shocks, disappointment etc the list is long!. I will for 2019 continue to try to sort this horrid mess out, its gonna be a very tough year. I hope you all have a good evening (well the best evening you can have in these circumstances) and i hope 2019 brings us all a little bit of happiness.