Suicide after arrest.. So lost and confused
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A few months ago I was at home with my husband and our 2 young children when we got the knock at the door at 7am, my husband was arrested and our house was searched.
My husband admitted to the police to online viewing, sharing images, he was then bailed to his parents house.
The following morning my husband committed suicide.
I am so lost, and I have so many questions that will now never be answered. I am full of anger and rage at my husband, has anyone else been in a similar situation? Does it ever start to get better??
My husband admitted to the police to online viewing, sharing images, he was then bailed to his parents house.
The following morning my husband committed suicide.
I am so lost, and I have so many questions that will now never be answered. I am full of anger and rage at my husband, has anyone else been in a similar situation? Does it ever start to get better??
How utterly appalling. have no words of advice, but I just wanted to reach out to you in sincere heartfelt sympathy. The knock and the whole situation is indescribably awful enough, but to have your husband commit suicide as well must be simply unbearable. I hope you can find support around you. Do phone the helpline - they are wonderful. Do please look after yourself. Thinking of you.
Dear Belinda,
I have no words of advice other than I'm so very sorry to hear about what has happened to your family. How devastating. I'm quite sure you have experienced every possible emotion and thats absolutely understandable. I hope you are getting lots of support? I'd also suggest that you call the helpline if you haven't already done so.
Sending you and your children much love.
xx
I have no words of advice other than I'm so very sorry to hear about what has happened to your family. How devastating. I'm quite sure you have experienced every possible emotion and thats absolutely understandable. I hope you are getting lots of support? I'd also suggest that you call the helpline if you haven't already done so.
Sending you and your children much love.
xx
Hi Belinda
Iv just read your post and wanted to send my love to you and your children. I can't comprehend what your going through. I'm so very very sorry.
Yaz xxxx
Iv just read your post and wanted to send my love to you and your children. I can't comprehend what your going through. I'm so very very sorry.
Yaz xxxx
Oh my god, Im so sorry. I don’t have any advice, I just couldn’t read your post and not say anything.
I hope you can find a way to move forward somehow.
Sending you love. X
I hope you can find a way to move forward somehow.
Sending you love. X
Belinda, I am so very sorry to hear about your husband. I can't even imagine how you're feeling right now. This is hard enough for the rest of us. I can imagine you're still in shock at the moment. Are you getting support through the gp? Counselling?
I know I read a case similar on here months ago so maybe that lady will come forward to offer you support.
I hope you have plenty of support around you. Don't listen when others say be strong. You need to allow yourself to grieve in whatever way you need to.
Take care lovely xxxxxx
I know I read a case similar on here months ago so maybe that lady will come forward to offer you support.
I hope you have plenty of support around you. Don't listen when others say be strong. You need to allow yourself to grieve in whatever way you need to.
Take care lovely xxxxxx
My partner tried to commit suicide on the night he was arrested. He had been offending across a decade and never knew how to get help. On the arrest he felt like there was no hope. It is horrible that you will not hear from him how he got involved. There are resources and the helpline to help looking the reasons why many get stuck in this horrible cycle and view iioc. Perhaps others stories could help get some understanding. Every case is unique but there are similarities with many.