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Dear all,
I am a bit new to this process and if i ask anything silly, please forgive me.
My husband is currently under police investigation for making (downloading) iioc. I am totally frightened after reading some posts here about the media on local news.
I wonder if it is a possibility for him to move to a different borough or city so to avoid having it reported in our local news?
Many thanks for your answer in advance,
I am a bit new to this process and if i ask anything silly, please forgive me.
My husband is currently under police investigation for making (downloading) iioc. I am totally frightened after reading some posts here about the media on local news.
I wonder if it is a possibility for him to move to a different borough or city so to avoid having it reported in our local news?
Many thanks for your answer in advance,
Hello,
we were terrified about the media at first, my mum and brother thought we would have to move. however after deciding as a family we would all stick by my dad, we thought we would wait and see what actually happened.
so once it came into the paper we all stayed by my dad, and to our suprise we were met by waves and waves of texts and phone calls of people supporting us, saying they knew dad wasn't a bad person and if we needed anywhere to stay we could! We understand how lucky we are to have had that.
so we took the hit of all the comments on Facebook, the paper, and we took the hit twice, and I find I laugh them off now! All comments are the same ignorant people, who can't read between the lines and forget that there's more to every story! However now, my dad can leave the house as normal, go to the shops and bars and people talk to him like nothing happened.
so I would say don't make any big desicions yet, stick your ground if you feel like that is what is right! me and mum are stubborn women, and it has worked in our favour as being in the family home has helped my dad recover.
good luck to you x
we were terrified about the media at first, my mum and brother thought we would have to move. however after deciding as a family we would all stick by my dad, we thought we would wait and see what actually happened.
so once it came into the paper we all stayed by my dad, and to our suprise we were met by waves and waves of texts and phone calls of people supporting us, saying they knew dad wasn't a bad person and if we needed anywhere to stay we could! We understand how lucky we are to have had that.
so we took the hit of all the comments on Facebook, the paper, and we took the hit twice, and I find I laugh them off now! All comments are the same ignorant people, who can't read between the lines and forget that there's more to every story! However now, my dad can leave the house as normal, go to the shops and bars and people talk to him like nothing happened.
so I would say don't make any big desicions yet, stick your ground if you feel like that is what is right! me and mum are stubborn women, and it has worked in our favour as being in the family home has helped my dad recover.
good luck to you x