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I suspect he'll be rearrested by the police for breaking his bail conditions but I agree that it's too much of a risk to have him around children if he has openly admitted to something like that...
Well done for taking the courage to tell the police!
Well done for taking the courage to tell the police!
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I have told my partner that if he ever reoffends and I find out I will not hesitate and report him. And I would personally leave him too. Please do not feel guilty. He is an adult and knows what he is doing is wrong. And it could be viewed that he isn't taking the offence seriously. If he stuck to the rules then he would not have given you a reason to inform the police. He really needs to grasp why these rules are in place and accept the restrictions. He should count himself lucky he isnt on remand. My partner took the arrest as an opportunity to get help and is thankfully for all the support.
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My husband is taking his bail conditions seriously as are a lot of others..I can't understand why anyone wouldn't. Do they not want to do the right thing, do they not want to be able to come home?
we all understand that if my husband is allowed home, then things will be very different to how they were before all this started..
he is a different person to before all this started..the light has gone out if that makes sense.
I've put it to him straight that if he wants to be allowed home then what I've put down in the family safety plan is how it will have to be for a long time and if he doesn't agree to it or co-operate then that's it, we're done , we're finished..thankfully he wants to do whatever is needed in the hope that he will be allowed to come home..
our daughter is 11 and has also been told that I'd dad can come home, then life won't be the same as it was before to which she replied " I know , I just want dad to be home "
i hope you find the answers wherever you look.
being on here has been a great comfort to me and I'd be lost without all the advice ive received up to now.
somewhere down the line, there is hope but how far off all that is , I don't know..
we just have to keep positive and so must you
xx
we all understand that if my husband is allowed home, then things will be very different to how they were before all this started..
he is a different person to before all this started..the light has gone out if that makes sense.
I've put it to him straight that if he wants to be allowed home then what I've put down in the family safety plan is how it will have to be for a long time and if he doesn't agree to it or co-operate then that's it, we're done , we're finished..thankfully he wants to do whatever is needed in the hope that he will be allowed to come home..
our daughter is 11 and has also been told that I'd dad can come home, then life won't be the same as it was before to which she replied " I know , I just want dad to be home "
i hope you find the answers wherever you look.
being on here has been a great comfort to me and I'd be lost without all the advice ive received up to now.
somewhere down the line, there is hope but how far off all that is , I don't know..
we just have to keep positive and so must you
xx