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Julie

Member since
December 2020

7 posts

Posted Tue December 8, 2020 9:19amReport post

I am struggling today even though my son is under investigation I know he is guilty, I can't stop thinking about my other 3 children and how I can make it up to them, I feel like I put my son first as I believed he has been vulnerable all his life and gullible. This has now turned to hate towards him and I look at my other children and just want to cry this has destroyed me

mjl73

Member since
August 2019

240 posts

Posted Tue December 8, 2020 1:31pmReport post

I didn't want to read and run. So sorry that you are struggling. Just remember this is not your fault, you are not responsible for your sons actions.



If you haven't called the Lucy Faithful helpline, you may find it helps to do so. They will be there to listen to you in a non judgemental way.

Blackhound

Member since
October 2020

479 posts

Posted Wed December 9, 2020 10:45amReport post

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Julie

Member since
December 2020

7 posts

Posted Thu January 28, 2021 12:25amReport post

Blackhound

thanks for that, I did feel a lot better but today 27th jan my son has returned to the area (he left on 4th December with a tent) he came to my house I told him I can't let him in and told him not to come to the house, but it feels so bad and has brought all the feelings back from when he was arrested

Blackhound

Member since
October 2020

479 posts

Posted Sat January 30, 2021 11:38pmReport post

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