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This is horrific. Truly. Whatever his mental state and whatever his reasons, you and your daughter are victims of this terrible situation. I think you are amazing to be dealing with this. What age roughly is your daughter?

What are your specific worries and concerns? I have no words for him blaming you. As you identify, it seems extremely unlikely that anyone would believe this man. What an incredibly cruel thing for him to do.

What you need to focus on, is you and your daughter. Your ex is not worthy of your mental energy.



Hugs xx

Oh good grief Steli, what an horrendous and incredibly traumatic situation for you. Your emotions understandably must be all over the place love. I know it's very very hard to accept but I think you need to distance yourself from him. He's being very controlling and threatening you to save himself. Like you say he's not remorseful by the sounds of it and is prepared to throw you into all this to save himself ( which I think will make it a lot worse for himself!) . I'm so sorry to say this love I really am. Have you told the police his intentions? Of trying to blame you? If not, and I understand you are scared and frightened about the outcome for your daughter and you have so many conflicting emotions,but I think you need to look after yourself and your daughter. Do you have any support from your own family?. Please reach out and ring the helpline too xx

Omg

Why would he try and pin it on you?? This makes me so angry..im sorry hes trying this with u and I believe that u may deserve better and so does your daughter

Xx