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Vickie

Member since
November 2020

428 posts

Posted Tue March 9, 2021 7:27pmReport post

Hi ladies

Round Two here I come so ss want to see a protective mommy well I will show them but I will not also be bullied to having no contact with my partner,,, I am not saying I am staying or walking that part of my life is on hold,,

Yes its taken me some time to get my head around but now its time to put me and the kids first so I am going to put the following to the ss,,,

Once released wait for the risk assessment to show the risk level

Then to have phone contact twice a week for the length of probation,,

Then depending on the outcome of what probation and ss say if we can move forward maybe to community access supervised at all time.

Do u think they will turn around and say I am been unrealistic xx

TryingToBreath

Member since
February 2021

35 posts

Posted Tue March 9, 2021 10:20pmReport post

Hi! I think you should definitely called The Family Rights Group. It's completely confidential and they'll be able to give you the best advice.

When I had some questions around my involvement with SS and what I should do as I wanted to stay with my partner but they made it clear they wanted me to leave or they'd take things further I called them and they listened and really explained how SS would be thinking and what I could do!

Good luck xx

Vickie

Member since
November 2020

428 posts

Posted Wed March 10, 2021 5:09pmReport post

Thank u for ur reply will do x

Saphire

Member since
January 2021

144 posts

Posted Wed March 10, 2021 9:08pmReport post

Hi Vickie I just wanted to say I hope you are doing okay. You're a fighter so you got this.

I am so so tired this week. I can't work from home now so we are out the door before 7.30 I'm not getting back home with the kids until 5pm and I'm shattered rushing in cooking, cleaning. I know I'm new to this single parent life but it's giving me so much respect for the single parents out there it's so much harder than I thought. I really miss coming home from work to my husband. Coming home to an empty house has hit me hard this week.