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Blackhound

Member since
October 2020

479 posts

Posted Thu March 25, 2021 3:16pmReport post

Heya all,

It's been about two months since I've been on here. I've been avoiding thinking about it and focusing more on doing thingsbthat make me happy. It's a terrible twinge in my heart when I do think about it and I don't enjoy it so I just switch to obsessively doing things they'll make me happy. I'm getting help for my mental health ATM, as is my husband.

It's been 5 months since the infamous knock. We've had no update on the situation and I don't expect to have any for atleast another 6-7 months if not more. I guess it's easier for me because I don't have kids and I know that my husband is an idiot and did a stupid disgusting thing, for which he is remorseful for. He had no addiction problems other than alcohol. Obviously like yourselves I am not going to be able to say too much about the situation...

I likely won't be on here for another few months because it depresses me ... For those who have entered the terrible journey since my last post, I am truly sorry for you. My best advise would be to kiddle through as best you can and focus on your needs.

Rusty123

Member since
October 2020

172 posts

Posted Thu March 25, 2021 6:13pmReport post

Hi black hound.
mum in the same place as u it's been about 5 months since out knock and no further forward. I have kids and have made progress with The protection plan. We started at 2 and are now at 8.
I don't come here often but when I do it's mainly after a social worker visit or a core meeting to have a moan or ask for advice.
everyone's path is different and reading posts I don't feel well knowledged enough to comment so I hold back.
I'm glad ur seeking help with the mental side of this I feel it's something I'll need to look into but don't know how it or where to turn and quiet frankly the motivation to do so yet.
stay safe a well x