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Notsurewheretogo

Member since
December 2019

89 posts

Posted Wed April 7, 2021 6:15pmReport post

Well the CPS wait is over!

He has been charged.

I am so so so so so angry with him. Why has he done this to us mine and the kids lives are over. I want the world to swallow me whole. I just don't know how I will cope.

Solicitor said max for this one conversation would be two years suspended don't know how he can say that when the max is 3 years for this offence in prison.

T2021

Member since
December 2020

79 posts

Posted Wed April 7, 2021 6:43pmReport post

Sorry to hear this sending love. When was the conversation? And what happens now?

Colaroo

Member since
October 2020

64 posts

Posted Wed April 7, 2021 7:51pmReport post

Can I ask if it was with a real person or a police decoy? Also have u been told what the chat was about? Iv been told what my husband had sent but by ss not the police. I'm still waiting for the police

Notsurewheretogo

Member since
December 2019

89 posts

Posted Wed April 7, 2021 8:06pmReport post

Husband was talking to a decoy basically had gone online to fulfil sexual fantasies ie nurse/doctor role play. Fell into a chat for schoolgirl/teacher. The rest is history the chat was of a sexual nature no photos no meets or anything.

Now I am petrified of media! I feel like mine and especially my sons life is over.

Colaroo

Member since
October 2020

64 posts

Posted Thu April 8, 2021 7:44amReport post

Thank u for ur reply. I think that is my worries the most as well iv got 2 boys 6 and 13 it is going to be horrible for them if it makes it in the papers. It will mean new name new life new school for us.