Hi ladies just a update
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So here we are now 7 months on and from the knock he has been to court and charged for publishing a obsense article,,, he got 15months in total no SOR or SHPO. 12 months on probation. Now the next battle is off to the family courts we go for the judge to see what kind of contact my children can have with their father,, now I know ss are not going to be happy but never mind it not about her it's about me and my children. My solicitor sounds like a fighter and she not happy with ss already so let see how this goes now. I just holding on to hope now I have my child protection plan
Safeguarding plan,,
I have said to my solicitor I will even do contact log sheet reports when they see or speak,,
I have done the informed course to,,
Solicitor has contacted ss and has told her she wants to be involved in every meeting,, fingers crossed now we are starting to rebuild things,,
Never thro I would get to this point let alone be written this post,, its down to all the ladies and men and the helpline the support has been amazing thank u xx
Safeguarding plan,,
I have said to my solicitor I will even do contact log sheet reports when they see or speak,,
I have done the informed course to,,
Solicitor has contacted ss and has told her she wants to be involved in every meeting,, fingers crossed now we are starting to rebuild things,,
Never thro I would get to this point let alone be written this post,, its down to all the ladies and men and the helpline the support has been amazing thank u xx
how come ss are involved if hes not on the sor or no shpo. What was the article about if you dont mind me asking?
It was about child sex abuse hun,, ss believe he has got away with the crime they are digging there heals in cause he not on them. Even knowing the judge said it didn't meant the threshold of a sexual abuse crime so now I am taking it to the family courts because ss are saying they will not let him any where near the children and that I should be running for the hills. Even all his reports have came back saying he 1.07% low risk of reofferding,, they believe him not taking his meds and not dealing with his depression and drinking 4 bootlegs of cider a day has lead to poor decision making. Ss don't believe the report or that he wants help she said he is a p and u need to take this on board and never speak to him again,, no wounded sociality are the way they are..
I really feel that ss like to get involved but make things worse. There are kids out there actually being abused but ss dont do anything about them.
Good luck with this. I'm sure you have a good case.
What report did he do to show the chance of reoffending? My husband's po has put him at medium and said it would stay that way until his order finishes. Evidence shows he saw pictures over 5 days which weren't in a week so I'm still surprised they can say medium considering putting someone as the same who has seen hundreds of images
Good luck with this. I'm sure you have a good case.
What report did he do to show the chance of reoffending? My husband's po has put him at medium and said it would stay that way until his order finishes. Evidence shows he saw pictures over 5 days which weren't in a week so I'm still surprised they can say medium considering putting someone as the same who has seen hundreds of images
Vicky
I hope Family courts will help you, and your hub will finally be able to have some sort of relationship with his children.
My hub been told by his PO hes med/high risk. They said everyone is who commits these crimes. When he spoke to his PO about we still not seen the police since the knock. They said cause he at the bottom of the list cause he very low risk. We have no children at home, but have grandchildren and SS told my daughter never to have any contact again just to get on with her life. It's all confusing and I really don't think anyone knows what their doing.
Where do the reports come from.
Anne
I hope Family courts will help you, and your hub will finally be able to have some sort of relationship with his children.
My hub been told by his PO hes med/high risk. They said everyone is who commits these crimes. When he spoke to his PO about we still not seen the police since the knock. They said cause he at the bottom of the list cause he very low risk. We have no children at home, but have grandchildren and SS told my daughter never to have any contact again just to get on with her life. It's all confusing and I really don't think anyone knows what their doing.
Where do the reports come from.
Anne
I got hold of the pre sentence report they do before going to court,,, the thing that hurts more than anything is that cause it did not meet the threshold of sexual crime he will not get any help to do any course so he will have to find them him self and funded them him self the whole system is broken. I don't condone my partners behaviour and never will he's never looked at any picture of children in that way yes he said what he said but never denied he said he was guilty of the messages and need to be punished for that,,, none wants to help these men or women the attitude is let's thrown the key away. How's that ever going to help anyone just want to call for change just don't know how yet xxx
The pre sentence report put two come
First been custodal sentences
Second one being sepened sentence for 36 months with a SHPO AND SOR,,
The outcome was custodal of 15 month,, 12 month probation and a fine and on licence from Jun to Jan 2022. Then the court transcript says that all the judge felt she could give as it didn't meet the threshold for sexual crime so what she put into place was because of the messages and how horrible they where.
Now as much we are finished with the justice system and will be release soon,, this is why I believe ss are coming in so hard because they keep saying he got away with not been charged with a sexual crime. Its hard to understand our case more I try to understand the more it gets thro back in my face by ss,,,. The pre sentence report also states that they believe the only time my partner is likely to reoffered is if he was to start taking his meds and start drinking again he was drink 4 bottles of ciders a day and he never drink before maybe once in a blue moon like,,, he has said he understand his meds are very important to keep his mental health health and to remain strong and he would never stop taking them again xx x he has been told he has manic depression and has been given new medication on top of his old meds now to xx
First been custodal sentences
Second one being sepened sentence for 36 months with a SHPO AND SOR,,
The outcome was custodal of 15 month,, 12 month probation and a fine and on licence from Jun to Jan 2022. Then the court transcript says that all the judge felt she could give as it didn't meet the threshold for sexual crime so what she put into place was because of the messages and how horrible they where.
Now as much we are finished with the justice system and will be release soon,, this is why I believe ss are coming in so hard because they keep saying he got away with not been charged with a sexual crime. Its hard to understand our case more I try to understand the more it gets thro back in my face by ss,,,. The pre sentence report also states that they believe the only time my partner is likely to reoffered is if he was to start taking his meds and start drinking again he was drink 4 bottles of ciders a day and he never drink before maybe once in a blue moon like,,, he has said he understand his meds are very important to keep his mental health health and to remain strong and he would never stop taking them again xx x he has been told he has manic depression and has been given new medication on top of his old meds now to xx