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it has been almost 7 months since that knock ( thank goodness for ring camera) as I was working and got alerted someone was at my door, I looked on the app and 6 plain clothes ppl at the door, my boss let me go home to which my world was broken.
I have battled so hard since this day Christmas new year sons 18th my 40th all alone, I had picked myself up and started looking after me, now I'm finding myself slip back I feel low lonely worried and anxious
why haven't I heard anything from police how long will this go on for?
he denies that he looked at videos or images and part of me believe him but then part of me is why is this happening, he says he had been sent a link and he clicked it to which sent to website which he shut down when they came up, he never told me that had happened that apparently was MAy 2019 we got a knock Nov 2020 I have no idea what else they have found if anything
I guess I just want someone to be honest with me,
sorry I have babbled I'm just low n lonely my only child is off to uni in September so it's just me in the home that was filled with fun and love and now just feels sad.
thank you for reading
i don't come on here often
it has been almost 7 months since that knock ( thank goodness for ring camera) as I was working and got alerted someone was at my door, I looked on the app and 6 plain clothes ppl at the door, my boss let me go home to which my world was broken.
I have battled so hard since this day Christmas new year sons 18th my 40th all alone, I had picked myself up and started looking after me, now I'm finding myself slip back I feel low lonely worried and anxious
why haven't I heard anything from police how long will this go on for?
he denies that he looked at videos or images and part of me believe him but then part of me is why is this happening, he says he had been sent a link and he clicked it to which sent to website which he shut down when they came up, he never told me that had happened that apparently was MAy 2019 we got a knock Nov 2020 I have no idea what else they have found if anything
I guess I just want someone to be honest with me,
sorry I have babbled I'm just low n lonely my only child is off to uni in September so it's just me in the home that was filled with fun and love and now just feels sad.
thank you for reading
COOKIE
I'm sorry you have found yourself here, unfortunately this is not a fast process and takes along time for devices to be checked. We are 18 months in .. magistrates in July.
Im sorry to say Even if your partner/ hubby opened a link unfortunately it is on his device.
I'm sorry your feeling like you are and wish I could say it gets better I have yet to feel that.
Sending a virtual hug, take care of yourself X
I'm sorry you have found yourself here, unfortunately this is not a fast process and takes along time for devices to be checked. We are 18 months in .. magistrates in July.
Im sorry to say Even if your partner/ hubby opened a link unfortunately it is on his device.
I'm sorry your feeling like you are and wish I could say it gets better I have yet to feel that.
Sending a virtual hug, take care of yourself X
Thank you for your reply, I have heard it's a long process just wish I had some sort of idea
Hi cookie
have u got a contact number for the police? I was given one and told if I had any enquiries to ring. About a month ago the police while in the area popped by to tell me no new developments as they are waiting on the device checks now. A week a go they also rang and said the same. The police will keep in contact once a month until it's all over. We are about 7months in too.
have u got a contact number for the police? I was given one and told if I had any enquiries to ring. About a month ago the police while in the area popped by to tell me no new developments as they are waiting on the device checks now. A week a go they also rang and said the same. The police will keep in contact once a month until it's all over. We are about 7months in too.
Rusty123 thank you I do but feel that when I called before Christmas they were very off with me.
I don't know if they would just drop in they didn't seem the most warming and helpful kind.
maybe I should just ring and ask x
I don't know if they would just drop in they didn't seem the most warming and helpful kind.
maybe I should just ring and ask x