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Hi everyone
feel tired and fed up today and have done for the last couple of days. It's been 14 weeks of him getting arrested for iioc and I feel like I should be moving on and get a grip on my emotions. My husband and I are working on things and getting along better and talking. He is just trying to live life and make the most of things which I suppose is all he can do. However I find it really hard to let him. I feel constantly that I need to remind him that our life is not normal now due to what he has done. I feel like we will not have any closure until this is done which of course could be years down the line. Just need to rant and get it off my chest
feel tired and fed up today and have done for the last couple of days. It's been 14 weeks of him getting arrested for iioc and I feel like I should be moving on and get a grip on my emotions. My husband and I are working on things and getting along better and talking. He is just trying to live life and make the most of things which I suppose is all he can do. However I find it really hard to let him. I feel constantly that I need to remind him that our life is not normal now due to what he has done. I feel like we will not have any closure until this is done which of course could be years down the line. Just need to rant and get it off my chest
Sid
I feel like this most days it's horrible isn't it, my son obviously does his own thing goes to work lives his life and I'm stuck in a hole I can't seem to get out of.. and it's not even my fault that's the crazy bit, I'm constantly fighting my own feelings anyway enough about me just wanted to let you know your not alone.
Sending a virtual hug
I feel like this most days it's horrible isn't it, my son obviously does his own thing goes to work lives his life and I'm stuck in a hole I can't seem to get out of.. and it's not even my fault that's the crazy bit, I'm constantly fighting my own feelings anyway enough about me just wanted to let you know your not alone.
Sending a virtual hug
Thank you Beck1234, it is the thought that you should be 'normal' and everything is ok. It isn't ok and I feel crap no matter how long it goes on for and no matter how much I want our marriage to work not just for us but our children too ...
Sid reading your post it's like I could of written it myself, 7 months ago tomorrow my world had been broken shattered, I still don't know how to keep going, left and abandoned it how I feel, his mum barely talks to me, his daughter has blocked and deleted me which makes me feel bad guy, I'm trying to work with my husband but I have so many barriers up.I guess what I'm saying to you is I can relate lovely and here if you want to chat x
Sid
So very true mine is 18 months since the knock and my life is far from normal, don't have a clue how to get normality back, and mine is my son I wish sometimes I could get hold of him and say do you realise what you've put me through but what's that going to do make him feel worse than he's already feeling. I really hope that you are OK.
Take care x
So very true mine is 18 months since the knock and my life is far from normal, don't have a clue how to get normality back, and mine is my son I wish sometimes I could get hold of him and say do you realise what you've put me through but what's that going to do make him feel worse than he's already feeling. I really hope that you are OK.
Take care x