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Afternoon,
I was just hoping that someone might be able to reflect on their own experience to help with some concerns I have.
- How have any stay at home Mum's managed if they've decided to separate? I have three children and am worried about how I will manage financially / child care. Has anyone found jobs they've been able to do around school / nursery?
- Can anyone recommend therapy courses that have helped them personally to deal with the trauma and effects on them?
- Those if you that have stayed together, what have been the hardest problems you've had to face?
- Those that have separated, have you found it easy to go on trust anyone again?
I know a lot of people think they happy and madly in love but I really was. It's left me feeling so humiliated. I don't know how I will ever have the faith that something is genuine again.
- Have partners eventually been able to have unsupervised access? I've no reason to be concerned at all about my three children being under his care. I worry how I will manage to have a life with or especially without him if he can't have unsupervised access. His family aren't local and unless I will be able to supervise, it won't be possible for me to work or have a life if my own.
- How many people have had it reported in the press? Has it been in the local paper or worse? I believe this isn't a high profile case in anyway but obviously am so worried for my children and protecting us from any judgement or association.
Many thanks,
G.
I was just hoping that someone might be able to reflect on their own experience to help with some concerns I have.
- How have any stay at home Mum's managed if they've decided to separate? I have three children and am worried about how I will manage financially / child care. Has anyone found jobs they've been able to do around school / nursery?
- Can anyone recommend therapy courses that have helped them personally to deal with the trauma and effects on them?
- Those if you that have stayed together, what have been the hardest problems you've had to face?
- Those that have separated, have you found it easy to go on trust anyone again?
I know a lot of people think they happy and madly in love but I really was. It's left me feeling so humiliated. I don't know how I will ever have the faith that something is genuine again.
- Have partners eventually been able to have unsupervised access? I've no reason to be concerned at all about my three children being under his care. I worry how I will manage to have a life with or especially without him if he can't have unsupervised access. His family aren't local and unless I will be able to supervise, it won't be possible for me to work or have a life if my own.
- How many people have had it reported in the press? Has it been in the local paper or worse? I believe this isn't a high profile case in anyway but obviously am so worried for my children and protecting us from any judgement or association.
Many thanks,
G.
Thank you, that was very helpful advice. Nice to not feel quite so alone. I'm sorry you feel that way too.
I will look into that therapy thanks.
I will look into that therapy thanks.