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hi wondering if anyone has been in this situation.
my ex has been convicted. He has 10 year on register. He has taken me to court for access . He has got it unsupervised. He has been seeing my son for two years now once a fortnight for 8hrs a day . Today he introduced him to his girlfriend. Not told me about this girlfriend how long he has been with her. My son has just told him he needs to tell me . He has gas advice saying that he doesn't have to tell me . I am sick to the stomach at the mo worried about who he is with.
my ex has been convicted. He has 10 year on register. He has taken me to court for access . He has got it unsupervised. He has been seeing my son for two years now once a fortnight for 8hrs a day . Today he introduced him to his girlfriend. Not told me about this girlfriend how long he has been with her. My son has just told him he needs to tell me . He has gas advice saying that he doesn't have to tell me . I am sick to the stomach at the mo worried about who he is with.
Hi,
How has he got unsupervised! What has SS said about this? My ex keeps talking about unsupervised contact, but I've been feeling pretty secure that he won't get it, he's on the register for 10 years too. How is a child sex offener allowed to be alone with a child!? I'm so sorry for your situation. Do you know if the girlfriend has been told about his conviction? X
How has he got unsupervised! What has SS said about this? My ex keeps talking about unsupervised contact, but I've been feeling pretty secure that he won't get it, he's on the register for 10 years too. How is a child sex offener allowed to be alone with a child!? I'm so sorry for your situation. Do you know if the girlfriend has been told about his conviction? X
Thank you for your reply. I don't understand why he got unsupervised. Especially when he is still in denial. I don't know if she knows and have just found out she is pregnant.
JJ
May I ask what was he convicted of ? How are you feeling about unsupervised? How old is your child ? He should of told you about new girlfriend especially as he has put you through so much already. How does your child feel about the new girlfriend ? That must be huge for any child. X
May I ask what was he convicted of ? How are you feeling about unsupervised? How old is your child ? He should of told you about new girlfriend especially as he has put you through so much already. How does your child feel about the new girlfriend ? That must be huge for any child. X
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my son seems ok . Was excited at the mo of having a brother or sister. Just confused. He think he has done no wrong not telling me about the relationship . He is in such denial. So I shouldn't be bother . And it was my thought that the relationship broke and not the fact that Ss told me to break it or my son would be taken. Why is he allowed to just carry on like he has done nothing wrong and I am left with losing my home my pension .. thank you for your concerns. We are all just left in such horrible positions . The only people left suffering are those ex wifes and we didn't even do anything. But make the wrong choice in partner.
my son seems ok . Was excited at the mo of having a brother or sister. Just confused. He think he has done no wrong not telling me about the relationship . He is in such denial. So I shouldn't be bother . And it was my thought that the relationship broke and not the fact that Ss told me to break it or my son would be taken. Why is he allowed to just carry on like he has done nothing wrong and I am left with losing my home my pension .. thank you for your concerns. We are all just left in such horrible positions . The only people left suffering are those ex wifes and we didn't even do anything. But make the wrong choice in partner.
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JJ
you are right to be annoyed I'd be fuming but I'm not here because of my hubby it's because of my 21 y/o son.
He is being charged with 400 iioc in all catagories.
Absolutely gutted to hear your loosing your house and pension .. may I ask why your pension ? Did you loose it through association? How long ago was he convicted.
Absolutely agree with you my son goes around like he doesn't have a care in the world and me well I'm terrified of door knocking / phone ringing actually I'm scared of my bloody shadow I've had 2 strokes 1 small and 1 bigger one in the space of 3 weeks I now am unable to speak properly and have lost some movement in my right side.
I'm pleased you and your son are doing OK x
you are right to be annoyed I'd be fuming but I'm not here because of my hubby it's because of my 21 y/o son.
He is being charged with 400 iioc in all catagories.
Absolutely gutted to hear your loosing your house and pension .. may I ask why your pension ? Did you loose it through association? How long ago was he convicted.
Absolutely agree with you my son goes around like he doesn't have a care in the world and me well I'm terrified of door knocking / phone ringing actually I'm scared of my bloody shadow I've had 2 strokes 1 small and 1 bigger one in the space of 3 weeks I now am unable to speak properly and have lost some movement in my right side.
I'm pleased you and your son are doing OK x
So sorry to hear about your strokes this is all so stressful. They just don't understand how it effects everyone around them. He was convicted 2018. I lose half my pension to him just disgusted . Now I find out he is due to have a child with this girl. And on the register for the next 7 years.