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Chiff

Member since
February 2019

10 posts

Posted Sun February 17, 2019 8:02amReport post

My husband was arrested 6 days ago, charged the following day and his case is 3 weeks tomorrow. 2 charges, regarding online contact with a minor. It was a vigilante group, a middle aged woman who lied about her age, and as far as I know there is no other evidence. He's pleaded not guilty, claiming he knew she was an adult. Has anyone else's partner plead not guilty? And any thoughts on the speed with which it is going to court? Don't know if that's good or bad.

Maria

Member since
September 2018

286 posts

Posted Sun February 17, 2019 8:49amReport post

Is his case with cps, different areas charge people in different ways but when cps have agreed on the charges i think they normally give two or three weeks notice of a court date. A not guilty plea will mean a trial at crown court usually for these type of offences rather than at magistrates court and trial dates depend on how busy the courts are so one month or more after. Has he sort legal advice on pleading not guilty, thinking the person was an adult and proving beyond all reasonable doubt that he knew it was an adult may not be the same thing. My partner is in a similar situation, not exactly the same and will likely plead guilty. I can see that they have done wrong and should have known better but its an interesting discussion looking at the fact they have actually not communicated with a minor, there is no victim and no evidence they have done it before. I wonder if in any other crime you would be treated so severely in those circumstances.

Maria

Member since
September 2018

286 posts

Posted Sun February 17, 2019 10:28amReport post

Sorry i misread your question. No i think if they have evidence then it can go through fast. It depends on what they want to do and how they charge people in your area. If they are not examining computers etc or dont have a backlog then theres no reason to drag the case out and can charge and send them to court quickly.

Jono1

Member since
December 2018

46 posts

Posted Sun February 17, 2019 12:26pmReport post

Hi chiff i too was worried about the speed of things. Knock xmas week. Magistrates nxt day . Crown court 3 weeks later.. all done by 3rd week in january. .my son pleaded guilty to images so no trial thankfully. ..i think i would of lost my mind if we had been waiting months like some people have to. X

Chiff

Member since
February 2019

10 posts

Posted Tue February 19, 2019 11:06amReport post

Turns out his crown court appearance is just another hearing. Actual trial will be 6 weeks after, I think. Hopefully get his bail conditions changed so he can move closer to home. However social media is crippling. People keep sharing the posts from the vigilante group, which is only affecting myself and my children, who are having to deal with it.

Big sigh

Member since
December 2018

244 posts

Posted Tue February 19, 2019 5:06pmReport post

Hi

even before all this I was absolutely opposed to vigilante groups - it is just too near to entrapment for me.

Your case does seem fast. In a way, even though the waiting is horrible, it also gives me time to process. It also gives my partner time to get therapeutic input and for us to do some research so that if/when he gets charged we are in a better place both in terms of understanding this behaviour as well as demonstrating we have taken steps towards it not happening again.

Jaded

Member since
December 2018

202 posts

Posted Thu February 21, 2019 10:46pmReport post

I hate online vigilante groups. These people are usually hiding some sexual fetish themselves. I mean who would take pleasure in having online sexual chats with a stranger whilst pretending to be a child? You can hear the adrenalin flowing as they speak.

When they attend the ‘sting’ they are pumping with adrenaline. They think they are officers of the law, even their vigilante gang names are pseudo law enforcement.

Dragonmama

Member since
November 2022

251 posts

Posted Thu December 1, 2022 12:19amReport post

Hi chiff,

I know your post was a long time ago I'm just curious as to what the outcome was. Going through exact same thing here

hope you get back to me