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Not even 4 weeks in and I can't do this anymore

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WeeWitch

Member since
June 2021

74 posts

Posted Sun July 11, 2021 9:01pmReport post

Just that

Awful, but I wish it could have been my now ex who committed this crime. Not my son.

I love him so much, but it's just him and me in the main and I will never abandon him but this is too hard.

I'm not angry at him just so so sad. X

Becky1234

Member since
March 2021

208 posts

Posted Sun July 11, 2021 9:04pmReport post

Thinking of you, there's nothing worse than how your feeling. I know exactly where you are.. I wish I had a magic wand .. sending a hug xx

Dawn14

Member since
June 2021

472 posts

Posted Sun July 11, 2021 9:41pmReport post

You can do it and im sure we will all support u best we can, we all no how hard it is but we will get through it xx

Worrieddaugther

Member since
June 2021

32 posts

Posted Sun July 11, 2021 9:47pmReport post

Hi wee witch

Of course you love your son god bless yous going through this ordeal and hopefully it works out ok for you's ! I'm sitting here watching the footy with my 7 year old son thinking it's an awful world to grow up in with all this internet and technology, I'm on this group because of my father still no outcome as what will happen and trying to be a happy mummy because of the summer holidays but am dying inside, xx

Edited Sun July 11, 2021 9:48pm

Maij

Member since
December 2020

287 posts

Posted Sun July 11, 2021 10:15pmReport post

Hi all

it is an awful time isn't it and I too, feel so sad about whats happened , but we will get through this and rise up stronger people and probably more understanding of other peoples trials and tribulations, telling ourselves , you just don't know what idividuals are going through, behind closed doors. Best wishes to you all

x

Edited Mon July 12, 2021 2:00pm

Cloud

Member since
May 2021

153 posts

Posted Mon July 12, 2021 8:02pmReport post

Wee witch - I hope you are a bit better today. You can do this. If you still feel desperate please call a helpline eg Samaritans or post more on here. I've really felt that 'can't do this' feeling a few times over the last 6 months and it feels all consuming. Focus on little things if possible xx

WeeWitch

Member since
June 2021

74 posts

Posted Mon July 12, 2021 8:17pmReport post

Thank you all you are so kind

Especially when you've got your own horror to deal with

I just remember telling him when he was born that I would love him unconditionally, and now that has been tested, but I do. I love him even more now,which sounds perverse.

You brilliant lot are literally what's keeping me going. X