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Hello Amy B

sorry you find yourself here as well lovely.

im fairly new well 9 months in and still unsure on how things going.

your story sounds familiar to mine and I'm happy to talk if you need to x

Hi, it's so difficult, best advice we got from my partners solicitor is just take o e thing at a time and dont worry too far in the future, it's hard to do but it helps, it's good your family is supportive, I only told my sister she is amazing, my children are both grown up and unfortunately my daughter saw it in the media, she is struggling, just hang on in there, do what you want, sending you a hug, it's something that we never thought we would have to deal with

My ex partner told me it was a mistake. It.must have been downloads in the back ground or similar. It does happen. The police said it would be about 5 weeks so I decided to stand by him until investigation was complete .18 months later when they finally did forensics it turned out he had thousands of all categories over several years.

I thought I was doing the right thing but those 18 months are the hardest to come to terms with. Until then I can almost see how he kept it separate from 'real life but he watched me go through hell sorting supervised contact, making excuses for him and trying to to.protect his feeling. We went on holiday, went to work, celebrated Christmas (twjce), birthdays and I convinced myself he could not do that to me if he was guilty, that he couldn't make love to me if he was guilty.

I don't know if your fiancé is telling the truth but brace yourself for it take a long time and look after yourself.Whether he is guilty or not you need to put yourself and daughter first in this.

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