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Three years ago, my father's arrest was broadcast live on Facebook and we found out what had been happening. He was sentenced to two years suspended for grooming and viewing indecent images. I was in a relationship at the time which fell apart because me and my family decided to try and work through it together and decided not to kick my dad out. I'm 22 now and would like to start dating again but I'm so scared because I'm unsure how and when to broach the subject with a future partner. I don't want to hide it because I believe in being honest. I went through a lot of verbal abuse from people because we decided to try and support my dad (not support what he did but support his recovery) and I'm so scared about more people knowing and the abuse I might get. Anyone here experienced a similar situation?
Hi Abi,
I can't advise but I just wanted to wish you all the best. I have 2 young children and I know one day in many years they may feel the anxiety you do because of their fathers choices. It must be so worrying to consider putting yourself out there, but also it's a really positive step too. You deserve a chance to move forward and I hope that you can find your way through and meet someone who has empathy and compassion x
I can't advise but I just wanted to wish you all the best. I have 2 young children and I know one day in many years they may feel the anxiety you do because of their fathers choices. It must be so worrying to consider putting yourself out there, but also it's a really positive step too. You deserve a chance to move forward and I hope that you can find your way through and meet someone who has empathy and compassion x
Thank you guys for your support it means so much! I'm glad to know that hopefully there are others out there who might be able to understand our decisions.