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hello all,
hope everyone is okay on here. I've not posted in a while, I found reading everyone's stories was sending me down a depressing road, as well as helping at the same time, especially knowing it wasn't just me going through it, which I also hate, as no one should have to go through this.
I'm nearly 5 months since the knock, I cope better these days, I went through a time where my anxiety and depression was uncontrollable (Ive suffered since my teenage years so this blew it up to a whole new level) I've started therapy privately as, my GP wasn't helpful, I just found my friends and family couldn't understand my feelings towards my ex and constantly gave their biased opinions. So therapy is the only way to figure this shit show of life out.
My ex and I are in a good place but not together, he's being very open and honest about things, he's seeing the kids supervised, we tend to just have family days out together, it helps everyone to have some normality. I don't think id ever be able to be with me again romantically but I do want to help him get better. He's no longer on bail but under investigation which as I've read from here could be a while.
does anyone find that they understand their partner or ex a lot more after all this coming out and the honesty from them? like things make more sense now.
anyway hugs to everyone
xx
hope everyone is okay on here. I've not posted in a while, I found reading everyone's stories was sending me down a depressing road, as well as helping at the same time, especially knowing it wasn't just me going through it, which I also hate, as no one should have to go through this.
I'm nearly 5 months since the knock, I cope better these days, I went through a time where my anxiety and depression was uncontrollable (Ive suffered since my teenage years so this blew it up to a whole new level) I've started therapy privately as, my GP wasn't helpful, I just found my friends and family couldn't understand my feelings towards my ex and constantly gave their biased opinions. So therapy is the only way to figure this shit show of life out.
My ex and I are in a good place but not together, he's being very open and honest about things, he's seeing the kids supervised, we tend to just have family days out together, it helps everyone to have some normality. I don't think id ever be able to be with me again romantically but I do want to help him get better. He's no longer on bail but under investigation which as I've read from here could be a while.
does anyone find that they understand their partner or ex a lot more after all this coming out and the honesty from them? like things make more sense now.
anyway hugs to everyone
xx
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