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Carmela

Member since
November 2020

87 posts

Posted Mon September 20, 2021 9:59pmReport post

I just wanted to make a post to say it really does get better, our case has been released to the media from vigilante social media page, it's still not over yet but had lots of support from people who know us and the saying people keep saying to me is "well he's not the first and he won't be the last, the internet has a lot to answer for" which does feel comforting to know some people think like that.

went to the prison and felt comfort seeing all other visitors there in same boat, it really is a huge but private club to be part

lots of love to you all

Dawn14

Member since
June 2021

472 posts

Posted Mon September 20, 2021 10:39pmReport post

Hi,

That's so lovely to say and no we certainly wouldn't want to be in this club if we had a choice x

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2547 posts

Posted Tue September 21, 2021 4:57amReport post

Thankyou Carmela - words of comfort. My FM is in prison which is a long way for me to travel and I haven't seen him for a whole year. I am grateful we speak every single day and under the family circumstances that contact is literally my life saver.



All our neighbours and friends have been amazing and although conveyed by the media in the most horrific and misleading way - continueto ask if he is ok. Most in utter shock as he was well liked.

I hate living with lies and taboo areas but unfortunately have no choice - you right life itself creates a new normal.

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Smile through tears

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September 2021

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Posted Tue September 21, 2021 4:57amReport post

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Blackhound

Member since
October 2020

479 posts

Posted Fri September 24, 2021 10:39amReport post

Wanted to bump this because today I really need to hear this and I suspect others will do too.

It will get better. We might not know what that looks like now but it will get better.