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Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

908 posts

Hiya all.

Well four months today our world was turned upside down. We got the knock 4 months ago today. He was bailed and now on RUI.

So far he has had one conversation with the arresting officer who said devices are still being looked into. She said I quote what he said from the chat hoping to have news back at the end of October.

He has responded well to theraphy have done the six modules online and a private theraphy chat over zoom with another one next week.

Thank you everybody ((hugs)) xx

Posted Fri September 24, 2021 8:55amReport post

Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

908 posts

Hiya Blackhound.

Yes we also live in the south and she said on the phone well done on theraphy etc.

These things can take up to a year before even going on to cps.

So just trying to keep busy. He still works and I have a part time job

((Hugs)) xx

Posted Fri September 24, 2021 10:25amReport post

LostandConfused

Member since
July 2021

35 posts

Hi, just curious as to why it takes longer in the south? I am in the south but the arrest was up north so it's kinda split for us, devices were seized in the south. I hope this doesn't make it take longer, the waiting game is torture and it's only just three months on. Where do you get your strength from? x

Posted Sat September 25, 2021 2:32amReport post

Smile through tears

Member since
September 2021

2731 posts

Our case took three months and that was torture. I sympathise with you ladies where investigation/conclusion drags on and on..... x

Posted Sat September 25, 2021 7:00amReport post

Ce-ce

Member since
August 2019

28 posts

We are still waiting...

Arrest: July 2019

second interview: August 2020

Plea hearing: June 2021

Estimated trial date: End of Jan 2022

If that goes ahead it will be 2 1/2 years of waiting - all for 2 chats.

Posted Sat September 25, 2021 10:09amReport post

Chelsea 1

Member since
June 2021

908 posts

Wow CE-CE.

whereabouts in the country are you ,?

Xx

Posted Sat September 25, 2021 10:14amReport post

Ce-ce

Member since
August 2019

28 posts

Yes pleading not guilty but still think it is a stupid amount of time. The knock was July 2019 - even at the plea hearing they said it was awful it had taken so long.

Posted Sat September 25, 2021 7:34pmReport post

Ce-ce

Member since
August 2019

28 posts

We are in Kent

Posted Sat September 25, 2021 7:39pmReport post

Ce-ce

Member since
August 2019

28 posts

Thanks Lee - yes defo not defendant's delays - have pushed for updates and news all the way. Can't blame Covid - they had all of it way before the lockdowns. They have no concern that a family had been put through this for 2 and a half years.

Posted Sat September 25, 2021 8:18pmReport post

Ce-ce

Member since
August 2019

28 posts

Oh Lee! Life on hold while we wait for it all. Biggest hugs to you - I'll update when I can and have news. In the mean time , stay as sane as you can and I'll try and do the same xx

Posted Sat September 25, 2021 8:39pmReport post

Ce-ce

Member since
August 2019

28 posts

Thank you Lee xx

Posted Sat September 25, 2021 9:10pmReport post

Quick exit