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Pregnantandscared

Member since
April 2021

140 posts

Posted Thu September 30, 2021 4:40pmReport post

Hello,

I wonder if anyone else is in the same boat as us.
we thought we were at the point that everything had gone to CPS, but it turns out that's not the case. Our case has been passed onto a new officer, who does to her credit seem to be on the ball, and she has stated that the device report has come back but it's shown further areas for investigation.
Solicitor says not to start worrying as they haven't said it's evidence of anything, just that they need to look further at what they have eg. They might need a password for something or they might need to look at a certain app or program specifically.
Has anyone been told something similar to this?

my partner is adamant there is nothing more than the conversation with the police decoy, and I do believe him. Equally, if they had found images or something else then surely they would disclose that to the solicitor or arrange a second interview?

any advice here would be appreciated.

Bob

Member since
September 2021

36 posts

Posted Thu September 30, 2021 8:28pmReport post

Hello me and my husband are in the same boat as you, we have 3 children and he is not allowed to stay at home with us which is hard to try and hide from the kids.my husband has taken things really bad and can’t cope at the moment,I’m really scared we have to wait another 3 weeks to find out what the outcome will be, and to be honest I don’t feel like any of us can cope that long, all we have to do is try and stay strong xxx he is currently sleeping in the car, i just hope he doesn’t get sent down as I know I will have lost him for good. Just wish they would give us some idea as to what they think would happen so we can organise things. Does anyone know if he will be allowed to come home again, feel so alone

Edited Thu September 30, 2021 9:22pm

Bob

Member since
September 2021

36 posts

Posted Sat October 2, 2021 9:27pmReport post

Hi he got arrested a week ago and has to go back at the end of the month, they took his phone and laptop.

He has told me that he was chatting to someone about children, it was just a spur of the moment he said and got carried away he knew it was not real and thought that it was just 2 adults talking to each other.

i have just found out that SS are involved and I’m dreading this as I know they will be coming sometime, my husband is currently living in his car as he can’t be left with the children unless I’m home.

I’m just scared as I don’t know what is going to happen, how long it takes, if i will have my kids taken off me , what will happen financially, will he ever be able to see the kids, will he go to jail.

i know he is really sorry and he can’t cope and wants to end his life, I just feel numb all the time. I don’t even know how I’m gonna tell the kids or my family

Pregnantandscared

Member since
April 2021

140 posts

Posted Tue October 5, 2021 1:35pmReport post

Hi Bob,

Sorry to hear you are in this situation too, I promise it does get easier.
Also if anyone can help with my original post please? Thanks.