Have cases had a quicker outcome since the end of Covid.
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Hiya all.
Just wondering if anybody knew or thought that since the lockdowns are finished etc if cases are finishing quicker. Ie the outcome.
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Just wondering if anybody knew or thought that since the lockdowns are finished etc if cases are finishing quicker. Ie the outcome.
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Hiya.
Just wondering if anybody knew. Sorry.
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Just wondering if anybody knew. Sorry.
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Hi Chelsea
I don't believe so they are still playing catch up and many more men were caught in lockdown. Statistics have shot up, so sad .
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I don't believe so they are still playing catch up and many more men were caught in lockdown. Statistics have shot up, so sad .
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I know they opened up 'temporary' courts to deal with the backlog.....
Hiya Mum.
Blimey that's a long time back.
Yes seen the numbers which are shocking.
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Blimey that's a long time back.
Yes seen the numbers which are shocking.
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Hi Chelsea 1, from the knock to crown court we only waited 10 months, I don't know if that is because of where we are, hope it's not too long fir you its hard once you get to sentencing stage but at least you know what you are dealing with, sending love
11 months since the knock and not a word other than to return 2 laptops. Solicitor chased it up and was told it takes as long as it takes. Apparently this ridiculous limbo is safer for the children than an unsupervised relationship with their father. Only hope things improve for those of you who are new to this. X
5 months in the end of the month. Still awaiting 3 devices to come back.
Had the one phone call so far off the arresting officer said hopefully in October with news.
Live in the south of UK.
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Had the one phone call so far off the arresting officer said hopefully in October with news.
Live in the south of UK.
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Coming up to a year now. My husband emailed the police officer for an update as I requested. We're not expecting much though tbh .. I could genuinely say I think we're in this for another year...
Which is fine ... Gives us a chance to grow, get some holidays in and such...
I just feel for this of you with children ... Please know you're amazing people!
Which is fine ... Gives us a chance to grow, get some holidays in and such...
I just feel for this of you with children ... Please know you're amazing people!
At 26 months here.. 18 months of therapy (and a few months councelling) he is a changed person and ready for the rest of his life I'd say.
Yet here we are waiting and wondering what will happen to his life (and ours)
We are in the north west
Yet here we are waiting and wondering what will happen to his life (and ours)
We are in the north west
Hi RL2.
26 months that's the longest I have seen. My heart goes out to you.
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26 months that's the longest I have seen. My heart goes out to you.
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3 years. That's dam joke. And not a funny one. When it's gets to a certain time I think the punishment should be less for the heartache and mental health on some people.
Shocking xx
Shocking xx
Thanks Chelsea
At about 12 months he made the decision to start getting on with his life, once the therapy had really made a difference. Hard to believe here we are more than another year later
hes low risk, no kids, work doesn't involve them either kind of thing. police told him he'll always go to the back of the queue!
At about 12 months he made the decision to start getting on with his life, once the therapy had really made a difference. Hard to believe here we are more than another year later
hes low risk, no kids, work doesn't involve them either kind of thing. police told him he'll always go to the back of the queue!
Nearly 12 months to the dot for us, that's from the knock to the crown court day. We're in the north west
Hi RL2.
That's what we have decided to do and just try and carry on and what will be will be. My hubby has been a idiot but what is done is done xx
That's what we have decided to do and just try and carry on and what will be will be. My hubby has been a idiot but what is done is done xx
Hiya.
5 months and only one phone call.
Reading more on here seems like they are speeding up a bit but have loads of cases to go through.
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5 months and only one phone call.
Reading more on here seems like they are speeding up a bit but have loads of cases to go through.
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Hi Chelsea
I have been reading the forum since 2019 and have probably read every post on here!
There really is no indication on time I don't think, even before Covid these cases took ages to get to court for a lot of different reasons.
My best advice to you would be, if you love your partner and want to stand by him, work on the issues that have brought him and you here. Whilst doing that, try and put the legal side of things to the back of your mind a little bit and live as normal a life as possible. Get good legal advice and make sure you go through every single thing with them. We didn't and paid the price for that.
No two cases are the same, so I think you will struggle to try and find the answers you are looking for on how long it takes. Everything to do with the police and judiciary is slow and that's not just these cases, it's most!
Enjoy Christmas and try and make it one to remember. The best thing we did in the 16 months we were waiting was make memories xx
I have been reading the forum since 2019 and have probably read every post on here!
There really is no indication on time I don't think, even before Covid these cases took ages to get to court for a lot of different reasons.
My best advice to you would be, if you love your partner and want to stand by him, work on the issues that have brought him and you here. Whilst doing that, try and put the legal side of things to the back of your mind a little bit and live as normal a life as possible. Get good legal advice and make sure you go through every single thing with them. We didn't and paid the price for that.
No two cases are the same, so I think you will struggle to try and find the answers you are looking for on how long it takes. Everything to do with the police and judiciary is slow and that's not just these cases, it's most!
Enjoy Christmas and try and make it one to remember. The best thing we did in the 16 months we were waiting was make memories xx
Hiya Emma.
Thank you very much for your reply
Yes we are definitely trying to live a normal life if possible.
Yes love him dearly and trying to work things through.
Hope.you are.ok hun.
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Thank you very much for your reply
Yes we are definitely trying to live a normal life if possible.
Yes love him dearly and trying to work things through.
Hope.you are.ok hun.
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Almost at a year here for us in south west. I am starting to loose faith in anything ever coming from this, in this year I've lost my husband the day the knock came my world broke, however I had my son aged 18 then and my dad to support me, move on almost 12 months and my dad suddenly passed away and my sons gone to uni, feeling low and isolated. The police haven't even given us a call.
Hiya.
Dunno if it's me.
But from I see from here now , cases are getting seen and resolved a lot quicker.
South here.
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Dunno if it's me.
But from I see from here now , cases are getting seen and resolved a lot quicker.
South here.
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Over a year and nothing since the initial raid. Computers are at least being examined. Enquiries on progress have led to the police saying they will now refuse to reply to any further questions.
I don't think any cases are being seen quicker or you can compare one case to another. It's pot luck, a waiting game and we'll be dealt with when we're dealt with. As unfortunate as that is.
My husband has been dealt with really quickly. 5 months from initial arrest to sentencing which was custodial unfortunately :( don't know what's best, he was reacting well to therapy but all this was discontinue throughout his sentence... maybe a longer wait would have helped him get more treatment. Appreciate it must be horrible to have it hanging over your head though
Hate the waiting game. Make me more and more worried ..
Hi
my partner is 3 years 5 months RUI with no conditions, he has not had a word from the police in this time.
He has done all the therapies and courses he can. I just hope they take this time into consideration.
it just take as long as it takes, it is very frustrating but I have learned to live each day at a time and at least my partner can still work.
Mabel x
my partner is 3 years 5 months RUI with no conditions, he has not had a word from the police in this time.
He has done all the therapies and courses he can. I just hope they take this time into consideration.
it just take as long as it takes, it is very frustrating but I have learned to live each day at a time and at least my partner can still work.
Mabel x
Hiya Mabel.
Blimey that cannot be right. I am so sorry.
That's way to long
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Blimey that cannot be right. I am so sorry.
That's way to long
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Been just over a year since the knock and no devices back either.
What a cruel length of time for everyone involved......
It's ridiculous considering technology these days.
I was told by my hubby's arresting officer. 1/ they havnt got the technology and 2/ a lot of the devices get sent off and can take ages. 3/ so many people are getting arrested for the kind of cases.
One day at a time from now on.
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I was told by my hubby's arresting officer. 1/ they havnt got the technology and 2/ a lot of the devices get sent off and can take ages. 3/ so many people are getting arrested for the kind of cases.
One day at a time from now on.
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