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KLK

Member since
October 2018

99 posts

Posted Fri March 8, 2019 10:44amReport post

God, I am so anxious about starting my counselling. I have a trainee therapist which I am slightly annoyed at (i know they have to start somewhere!) but I've had a trainee social worker who was appalling and the officer in charge of my Husbands case was brand new to the job and hadn't long been promoted and he was her first sting in a new unit!!!!

I just know I am going to spend the session crying =(

Bethlou23

Member since
December 2018

383 posts

Posted Fri March 8, 2019 1:05pmReport post

Wishing you all the best for your session today. The first one is always the hardest. The most important thing is you click with the therapist on a personal level. So they can hold your big feelings.

a good cry is always a good thing xxx

Tracey

Member since
December 2018

450 posts

Posted Fri March 8, 2019 2:03pmReport post

Hi KLK

I'd be really surprised if you didn't cry, it's a really emotional time, and I agree with poster, I think trainee could be a good thing, they won't be so jaded!

I hope it goes well and you click with them

Take care xx

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SallyBlue

Member since
March 2019

252 posts

Posted Fri March 8, 2019 2:35pmReport post

Good luck today. First session can be the hardest. You may feel a bit worse after it as all th "boxes" have been opened but after a few you will be lighter.



My therapy ended today. 4 years in, she's retiring and I feel in a much better place. It takes time but you'll get there, promise!

Jayne

Member since
January 2019

11 posts

Posted Fri March 8, 2019 5:54pmReport post

Hi klk,

I agree with poster regarding your Councillor. I'm only on session 3 & found that one the hardest as I'm getting deeper into it. It made me feel better but washed out also.



Hope it went well for you. As it's Fri treat yourself to whatever you fancy. You deserve it.

J x

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KLK

Member since
October 2018

99 posts

Posted Mon March 11, 2019 2:08pmReport post

Sorry ladies, I can't get the forum on my phone and have only had access today since posting.

I don't know how it went to be fair, she just said I have read your referral, want to tell me more? and then I cried and spoke about everything in no order or sense and then it was over!!! I have my next appointment on the 5th April as I am in hospital next week for a hysterectomy. Do they start asking stuff or advising at any point or do I just talk?!!