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Chelsea 1

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June 2021

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Posted Sun October 10, 2021 5:32pmReport post

Hiya all.

Thank you everybody on this group first of all.

So me and hubby has told me everything, I have had time away and decided to stay with him.

So we have decided to move. House is sold and moving away when solicitors have been sorted.

What I wanna know what is life like a head.

My job is part time kitchen staff , his was in the public sector.

We are concerned about jobs and off course somebody kindly said on here that once moved only us and the police will know about us.

We haven't got children so no SS involvement.

Sorry for the rant. Sundays are the worse for me as over thinking.

((Hugs)) to all xx

Chelsea 1

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June 2021

891 posts

Posted Sun October 10, 2021 6:12pmReport post

Hiya Lee.

Thank you for always your help on these forums.

Just asking myself , sorry Sundays are always bad for me overthinking etc.

Just asking. What is the road like a head.

Xx

Chelsea 1

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June 2021

891 posts

Posted Sun October 10, 2021 6:35pmReport post

Thank you so much Lee.

Yes we trying our best at our relationship really are but hard.

He is trying to be a better person. Done 2 payed concelling sessions.

Xx

Chelsea 1

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June 2021

891 posts

Posted Sun October 10, 2021 8:00pmReport post

Hiya Lee.

What u mean research ?

Xx

Chelsea 1

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June 2021

891 posts

Posted Sun October 10, 2021 8:17pmReport post

I think he has been liking porn for years and all kinds of subjects. He has stated he hasn't looked at porn or anything to do with it since the knock at the end of May/21. Which I believe.

I known we have maybe a while to go on this journey but all help is great (:

Xx

Edited Sun October 10, 2021 8:17pm

Chelsea 1

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Posted Sun October 10, 2021 8:39pmReport post

Thank you Lee I shall start looking into this.



Once again thank you hun xx

Chelsea 1

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June 2021

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Posted Sun October 10, 2021 8:56pmReport post

Hiya Lee.

Definitely going to put the work in with him and when we come out the other side hopefully become a better couple for this.

Yes he is worried what the outcome will be but like I have said to him can take up to a year and had the knock May/21.

He is also concerned about work but he will find something not everybody asks and does dbs checks.

And of course we are moving to a new area and it won't be in the new area papers etc.

Thank you once again Lee hun.

Xx