advice
Notifications OFFPost deleted by user
Hi sadmum
My hub was all over the media and all social media. We live in a small village. We have had no problems, my hub still lives here.
The OIC did say if any problems to let them know ASAP and they will deal with it.
I'm still not sure who knows, we keep to ourselves. He was sentenced over 15 months ago.
Anne
My hub was all over the media and all social media. We live in a small village. We have had no problems, my hub still lives here.
The OIC did say if any problems to let them know ASAP and they will deal with it.
I'm still not sure who knows, we keep to ourselves. He was sentenced over 15 months ago.
Anne
Post deleted by user
Try not to think too far ahead. We had the full works with the media and I was petrified imagining crowds of vigilantes, windows smashed, car tyres slashed. Kept me awake for nights - ill with fear.
To our surprise there was nothing - only support from neighbours. So please don't overload yourselves. Baby steps in this journey.....
To our surprise there was nothing - only support from neighbours. So please don't overload yourselves. Baby steps in this journey.....
Sadmum
were going through this at the minute. Hubby moved out pre court but I'm sticking by him and I hope one day he'll be back with us. We weren't in the press but social media posts by so called friends ruined us. I was scared of retribution if I'm honest and so for the kids sake I asked him to move out. I'm now thinking I shouldn't have as his moving back will just cause another social media frenzy. I hope you can get through this....you will you puisne believe the strength you have when you need it. Sending love xxx
were going through this at the minute. Hubby moved out pre court but I'm sticking by him and I hope one day he'll be back with us. We weren't in the press but social media posts by so called friends ruined us. I was scared of retribution if I'm honest and so for the kids sake I asked him to move out. I'm now thinking I shouldn't have as his moving back will just cause another social media frenzy. I hope you can get through this....you will you puisne believe the strength you have when you need it. Sending love xxx
Hope for the future,
do you mind me asking how your "friends" found out about it to post on social media??
sorry that you had to go through that
do you mind me asking how your "friends" found out about it to post on social media??
sorry that you had to go through that
I don't live with my partner but he had no problems where he lived, he isn't on social media, my daughter unfortunately found out through the media which has been difficult his ex partner also stopped him seeing his son which he had been doing, I don't blame her, I probably would have reacted the same way, it breaks his heart,and mine to see him, my daughter is grown up, and after saying to keep him separate while she gets used to things is now saying she would be fine to see him at family events, my partners PO said to him that while he thinks he is walking round with a target on his back he isn't, it was 3 months ago now and still spend alot of time worrying people will find out, love and hugs to everyone
Hi everyone
Currently been dealing with this for what seems like the longest time. In May 2020 the police turned up with a search warrant and searched our property for indecent images, it was a real shock. They then went to my partners work and arrested him. They found nothing at the house but did on his phone. It's been a nightmare with social services. Its only been this last week that he has been in court. He was sentenced to 10 months in prison and its all over the papers and the Internet. All I can say is you just have to keep going I keep thinking todays news is boring tomorrow. Then I think about my daughter and how heart broken she's going to be when she finds out she's not going to see her dad, which she loves for a long time. It's easy to feel depressed. I keep trying to remind myself that we have done nothing wrong.
Currently been dealing with this for what seems like the longest time. In May 2020 the police turned up with a search warrant and searched our property for indecent images, it was a real shock. They then went to my partners work and arrested him. They found nothing at the house but did on his phone. It's been a nightmare with social services. Its only been this last week that he has been in court. He was sentenced to 10 months in prison and its all over the papers and the Internet. All I can say is you just have to keep going I keep thinking todays news is boring tomorrow. Then I think about my daughter and how heart broken she's going to be when she finds out she's not going to see her dad, which she loves for a long time. It's easy to feel depressed. I keep trying to remind myself that we have done nothing wrong.