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Littlelady92

Member since
October 2021

3 posts

Posted Fri October 15, 2021 3:14pmReport post

Hi all!

just looking for some positive stories.

my husband got arrested in September for sharing an explicit video of a minor. His bail has since ended and not charged and is under investigation until they get his phone back for evidence could be may/June next year.

at the moment he is only allowed supervised contact with our baby being his mum and dad as he is currently staying there.

I have since forgiven him and just want him to come home for our 6 month old (I was pregnant when he shared this video)

is there any chances of him ever coming home? SS don't trust me not to leave our baby with him but I genuinely wouldn't. I've read some stories where the dad is never allowed home :(

Is there anything I can do to help him coming home? Courses? Anything like that?


thank you

Edited Fri October 15, 2021 3:19pm

Blue82

Member since
January 2020

95 posts

Posted Thu October 21, 2021 10:43amReport post

Hi little lady!



there are a few success stories on here of family's being able to be together again. So yes it can be done. You may find if this is more likely to be achieved after the investigation is complete though, and you know exactly the outcome of everything. It must be hard with your child being so young. Xx

Cattwoo

Member since
October 2021

1 post

Posted Thu October 28, 2021 12:11amReport post

Hello,

My story doesn't sound too dissimilar to yours. Whilst I was pregnant my husband received 1 cat a video and 1 cat a photo. He was arrested 5 days after the birth of our baby (still processing this 3 months later.) Due to our daughters age he was allowed home under very strict conditions. He has just been cautioned as nothing else was found on his devices. He is allowed to stay at home under these conditions but SS will conduct a risk assessment soon. Hopefully the outcome will be that he is allowed unsupervised access again as it's darn tricky to do everything alone!

He has been incredibly fortunate but I hope this gives you a little bit of hope. Its all we have while we wait isn't it. All the best x

SadAndWorried

Member since
October 2019

154 posts

Posted Tue December 7, 2021 9:34amReport post

Hi Littlelady92,

There is a post written by Lee1969 called positively for other on the discussion area on here, there are comments from ladies on the otherside or with positive outcomes with SS.

x

Edited Tue December 7, 2021 10:47am