Decided to go with the flow. Cannot be worrying what's ifs all the time.
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Hiya all.
Sorry me again.
So after a big chat at the weekend me and my hubby have decided to just try and live a normal life until charges etc happen. We cannot be sitting around waiting on the phone to ring or email to happen. No good for health or other issues otherwise it will split us up.
Can be a while yet so cannot be worrying of the ifs and when's.
So first thing first sorting this house out with a move hopefully early January 22 and hopefully a good Xmas.
Thank you for listening and big ((hugs)) to all xx
Sorry me again.
So after a big chat at the weekend me and my hubby have decided to just try and live a normal life until charges etc happen. We cannot be sitting around waiting on the phone to ring or email to happen. No good for health or other issues otherwise it will split us up.
Can be a while yet so cannot be worrying of the ifs and when's.
So first thing first sorting this house out with a move hopefully early January 22 and hopefully a good Xmas.
Thank you for listening and big ((hugs)) to all xx
Good on yer / keep up the positives.....
Hiya.
Thank you.
It's the only way I can process stuff. 10 years to this date and I suffered from depression. I cannot go down that route.
Xx
Thank you.
It's the only way I can process stuff. 10 years to this date and I suffered from depression. I cannot go down that route.
Xx
Hiya.
Just update. Our house is finally sold.
Xx
Just update. Our house is finally sold.
Xx
Well done Chelsea...
I can totally relate, we're in a similar situation...
No kids and back to normal life basically... I'm glad your partner came clean ..
For me there's been no lying about his crimes, which is good but sometimes I think about the stuff I've put up with including the lying about alcohol, not dealing with his depression ... Then the investigation...
I am focusing on me and trying to support him a little as well but I find it difficult. The trust has gone and it took a lot to go ... And I am terrified of trusting him again because everyday brings something different. I am also trying too hard to 'Fall back in love' instead of just letting it happen (if it does) ...
Ive decided to not analyse everything and try my best to go with the flow (which is an approach for life espeically in this terrible investigation stage).
Glad your house sold... It really gives me hope because I want to move house soon but we're not in a position yet to do so..
I can totally relate, we're in a similar situation...
No kids and back to normal life basically... I'm glad your partner came clean ..
For me there's been no lying about his crimes, which is good but sometimes I think about the stuff I've put up with including the lying about alcohol, not dealing with his depression ... Then the investigation...
I am focusing on me and trying to support him a little as well but I find it difficult. The trust has gone and it took a lot to go ... And I am terrified of trusting him again because everyday brings something different. I am also trying too hard to 'Fall back in love' instead of just letting it happen (if it does) ...
Ive decided to not analyse everything and try my best to go with the flow (which is an approach for life espeically in this terrible investigation stage).
Glad your house sold... It really gives me hope because I want to move house soon but we're not in a position yet to do so..
Hiya Blackhound.
Thank you so much for replying to my message.
So yes decided enough was enough. We both decided that this could drag on for a while yet but we have to some kind of move on.
My trust in him has been completely blown away but hopefully when this is over we can make small steps.
Yes thank you the house is sold and paperwork with soliceters etc and moving away so when his case is heard and if in the media it won't be in the new area.
How's you getting on now. Hope you are ok.
Xx
Thank you so much for replying to my message.
So yes decided enough was enough. We both decided that this could drag on for a while yet but we have to some kind of move on.
My trust in him has been completely blown away but hopefully when this is over we can make small steps.
Yes thank you the house is sold and paperwork with soliceters etc and moving away so when his case is heard and if in the media it won't be in the new area.
How's you getting on now. Hope you are ok.
Xx