Decree nisi
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So today I get my decree nisi, should I be celebrating?? Well I can't, I just feel so sad, a year ago this want even on my horizon and now I'm nearly a divorcee!!
I won't be getting the absolute until the financial side has been sorted out but even so it's been a life changing year.
I've gone from, what I thought was a happy, normal marriage to living on my own, knowing more about indecent images and pornography than I ever thought I would it even wanted too. I just about understand the legal system and I've been inside a court on 3 occasions, perhaps I should have put that on my bucket list!!
The wind is howling today and it probably suits my mood!
Sorry to whine but it did seem very unfair at times!!
Lots of love xx
I won't be getting the absolute until the financial side has been sorted out but even so it's been a life changing year.
I've gone from, what I thought was a happy, normal marriage to living on my own, knowing more about indecent images and pornography than I ever thought I would it even wanted too. I just about understand the legal system and I've been inside a court on 3 occasions, perhaps I should have put that on my bucket list!!
The wind is howling today and it probably suits my mood!
Sorry to whine but it did seem very unfair at times!!
Lots of love xx
My heart goes out to you, it really does. I am about to leave for magistrates court this morning and never would have thought this would have been part of my (or my children’s) life. I have been full of nervous energy since yesterday and am on edge and shivery so the weather seems to suit my mood. I hope today is as ok as it can be - it is a new chapter and a new direction and never one you expected but I hope at least you can begin to move forward - as many others have said; one foot in front of the other, one step at a time, day by day and everyone is here for you. Rosa x
Tracey
i am feeling the mood of the weather too. It’s completely devastating for you and him to be fair.
i keep on thinking that I was happy before all this happened what a complete shock for us all. I am greatly miffed as my wedding vows were sacred to me. I didn’t see I will become a divorcee either.
you with someone today tracey or spending the day by yourself?
I can see why you don’t want to celebrate it’s a piece of paper that echos what was lost. It’s time to grieve what was and this time next year when all the flowers are coming up hopefully you will be in a different situation.
I really feel for you tracey, none of us asked for this. Xxx
Take care, despite the marriage ending you are still a caring woman who had no part to play in the ending of the marriage. I sending you love and strength xxx
i am feeling the mood of the weather too. It’s completely devastating for you and him to be fair.
i keep on thinking that I was happy before all this happened what a complete shock for us all. I am greatly miffed as my wedding vows were sacred to me. I didn’t see I will become a divorcee either.
you with someone today tracey or spending the day by yourself?
I can see why you don’t want to celebrate it’s a piece of paper that echos what was lost. It’s time to grieve what was and this time next year when all the flowers are coming up hopefully you will be in a different situation.
I really feel for you tracey, none of us asked for this. Xxx
Take care, despite the marriage ending you are still a caring woman who had no part to play in the ending of the marriage. I sending you love and strength xxx
Thinking of you Tracey. This is such a tough time, and like a storm, you have you weather it. Which you will....Sending lots of love and support.
Paula
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