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Husband won't allow any contact

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Mary Jo

Member since
April 2021

2 posts

Posted Tue October 26, 2021 3:45pmReport post

Its been a year and a half since my father has been caught with images. I havnt spoken to him for most of this time. I probably would have been speaking to him only that my husband won't allow our 3 children to have any contact with him. It has torn our whole family apart, including my relationship with my mother. I feel very alone and can't confide I'm any friends. Has anyone else experienced this kind of situation and how did you deal with it as there are days I feel at my wits end.

Alison20

Member since
March 2021

363 posts

Posted Wed October 27, 2021 10:58amReport post

Hi

After reading your post I felt the need to reply to you. I am so sorry that you find yourself in this situation.

Unfortunately, I am unable to offer any advise as my situation is different and we do not have any children under 18 years but I know there are many on here who will be able to post that can relate more to your situation.

Have you tried ringing the Stop in Now helpline? If you haven't spoken to anyone about this they would be a very good place to start. They have come across all scenarios and would be able to support you.

I hope you receive other replies soon from other members.

Thinking of you and take care of yourself

Dawn14

Member since
June 2021

472 posts

Posted Wed October 27, 2021 7:17pmReport post

Hi Maryjo,

Has there been any explanation? It is so hard my kids have lost their older brother due to his dad downloading iiocs, and we hadn't watlrn him my hubby ( his dad ) was going to court, but he had hardly been in contact with us and we had other things to worry about at the time, can u talk to ur hubby explain u understand where he is coming from but u would like to talk to ur mum and dad x