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Hi Sarah,

goodluck for tomorrow and fingers crossed you get a good result and it’s not cancelled again xx sending big hugs

So glad it's not been postponed again. Will be thinking of you hope you get some rest tonight xx

Hi Sarah

Good luck to you both for tomorrow sending you a virtual hug xx

Hi Sarah,

Good luck for tomorrow xx sending good wishes

Wishing for the best outcome for you tomorrow! Ours is just over a week and each day I'm getting more anxious, can't imagine if it's postponed. My greatest worry too is the potential conversation with the children.
Will be thinking of you tomorrow x

Will be thinking of you tomorrow x

Ahh bless you...... did he spend any time on remand, if so this will be took off.

You will be in shock, it's absolutely devastating - massive hug sent Sarah x be strong my lovely x

Sarah ???

I'm so so sorry sending all my love

Hi Sarah

I am so sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you and your family and sending you lots of strength over the next few days and weeks ahead.

Hi Sarah

so sorry for your news sending hugs to you and your family x

Sarah

I'm so sorry

Please look after you

Sending a virtual hug

Anne

So sorry Sarah strength and hugs sent to you and your family xx

Hiya.

Omg so sorry to hear this.

((Hugs)) x

Hiya Sarah.

Seems a big sentence for a very small amount of stuff.

Big ((hugs)). You got this

Xx

Hi Sarah,

I am so sorry for ur outcome, try to stay strong, sending love and hugs to u xx

Really sorry to hear this.
How old are your girls?
I hope you can all be as strong as possible and get through this together.
Sending love

Hiya Sarah.

You are right hun. The system needs a total rethink. Still very very harsh sentence thou.

Sending ((hugs)) xx

As regards distribution I think they throw the book at you!

Just shows you how bad the whole system is.His life and that of all his family (including the children) will suffer.He will perhaps have a problem finding work after prison.The family may well have to become dependent on benefits and maybe worst of all,the children (who this system is supposed to protect) will be having who knows how many adverse childhood experiences which can be devastaing for them (search for it).

You have to ask yourself how this helps this country.

And yet those who could change it i.e MPs,the legal profession,the police and others sit back preening themselves on what a good job they are doing in "stopping it" when in fact they are doing nothing of the sort as the figures prove.

Someone needs to put their head above the parapet and start a sensible conversation as to how to do this,but I am not holding my breath.Again,I am not sure they will allow this to be posted.

Sarah?? I'm a week down the line from you. We were told he would more than likely get a suspended sentence, however the judge "needed to make an example" out of him!,

It's absolutely soul-destroying isn't it, almost like grieving the loss of your partner. My husband got 3 years for communication with police decoys (no arrangement to meet or anything), he has already been told that he will be out by next December at the latest. I know that's still a whole year of not having him at home, but 1 year is significantly better than 3.

Each day that goes by will get that little bit easier (or so I'm hoping). Stay strong for your family and reach out for help if you need it xx

Hi Sarah

im so sorry to hear about what has happened to yous. I was in the same boat, so if you need any advice I am here. Just thought I'd reach out as I know what a traumatic time this is for you all.
hugs

blue xx

I'm suprised you haven't heard anything to be honest they are usually prompt with phone calls. My boy has been to three different prisons and made calls on the same day.

But then again - as been said before - each prison is different. Let's hope he will call soon, completely understand your anxiety it's horrible waiting for the phone to ring x